Welcome to episode 283 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Kenneth Play to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Kenneth became a Sex Hacker, ways you can achieve multiple orgasms and cultivating energy for amazing foreplay. 

Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. Named the world’s greatest sex hacker by GQ, he has been featured by more than one hundred media outlets, including The New York Times, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and Nightline.  

Kenneth has been a guest lecturer on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. His work has helped millions of men gain lasting confidence and competence. AskMen described Kenneth’s most recent course as having "at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several." 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• How Kenneth became a Sex Hacker 
• Can anyone have multiple orgasms? 
• Looking at the different types of orgasms 
• How women can continue having an orgasm when the clit is very sensitive 
• Ways you can best equip yourself with the tools needed for great orgasms
• The importance of foreplay for achieving multiple orgasms
• Cultivating energy for amazing foreplay
• Understanding a Lady Boner is 
• The importance of learning skills so you’re not shooting in the dark  

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Welcome to episode 282 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr Jennifer Lincoln to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss having sex on your period, how you can pay attention to your desire cycle, and how it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period.   

Jennifer Lincoln, MD, IBCLC, is a board-certified generalist obstetrician/gynecologist and attending physician in Portland, Oregon. She primarily works on labor and delivery as an OB hospitalist and loves the excitement and pace this work brings. Jennifer is also an International Board-Certified Lactation Consultant. 

Jennifer received her undergraduate degree from Washington College in Chestertown, Maryland, where she graduated Summa Cum Laude. She received her medical degree from Tulane University in New Orleans, Louisiana, where she was a member of Alpha Omega Alpha, the nation’s honor medical society. She completed her residency at Oregon Health and Science University in Portland, Oregon. 

Jennifer enjoys educating women about their bodies and their pregnancies. She has particular interests in adolescent medicine, breastfeeding advocacy, and supporting women in labor in an informed, relaxed manner. She currently serves on the Board of Directors for the Northwest Mothers Milk Bank as well as for the Society of OB/GYN Hospitalists. 

She is happily married to a pediatrician and has two sons, one in elementary school and the other a preschooler, who teach her more everyday than any textbook could. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Can we have sex during our period?
• What are the benefits of having sex on your period?
• How having sex on your period can act as a natural lubricant 
• Can you get pregnant while having sex on your period?
• How it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period
• Exploring oral sex while on your period 
• Looking at “Menstrual Masking” 
• Can you reduce your period flow?
• How having sex on your period can be great in the shower
• Ways you can increase novelty into the relationship through period sex
• Learning to pay attention to your desire cycle 

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Welcome to episode 281 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Layla London to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Layla’s journey to creating a sexual bucket list, why novelty is important to keep sex exciting and why stepping outside your comfort zone is important to explore sexuality. 

Layla London is the girl next door who recently decided to explore her sexuality. After a 3.5-year, self-imposed, dry spell she woke up one day and said "What the heck am I doing to myself? Why have I just shut off that side of my sexuality? I need physical contact badly." 

She decided to stop "wasting the pretty" and get out there! Having set out on her "sexual road trip" she is scratching things off her sex bucket list. Layla is getting laid, exploring "kinks" (a word she really didn't know anything about before this), having fun, sifting through the emotions it stirs up in her, blogging and podcasting about it anonymously 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• How Layla dealt with celibacy  
• Why novelty is important to keep sex fresh and exciting 
• How celibacy drove Layla to explore her sexuality  
• Why Layla decided to create a sexual bucket list  
• The ways in which porn helped Layla explore her sexuality 

• Understanding the difference between ethical porn and sex education videos 
• Learning to communicate effectively with your partner about what you want 
• Looking at what Layla liked and disliked from her sexual exploration 
• The things that are still on Layla’s sexual bucket list  
• What are the common things on people’s sexual bucket list 

• Why stepping outside your comfort zone is important to explore sexuality  
• The importance of sexual negotiation and doing it in good faith  

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Welcome to episode 280 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where we discuss the best ways to initiate sex.  

In this episode, you will hear: 

• How couples in long term relationships can learn new ways to initiate sex  
• Ways you can add novelty into your relationship  
• The importance of reciprocation for a healthy sexual relationship  
• Understanding the arousal gap between men and women  

• Analyzing the responsive model of desire  
• How partners can become resentful of things that happen in a relationship 
• Using communication to improve your sex life with your partner 
• How a good sexual plan can be a game changer 
• Learning to take things slow so you can last longer 

• Overcoming issues of partners liking other people’s Instagram photos, leading to issues of anxiety and insecurity   
• The importance of having a relationship agreement 
• Setting realistic goals and expectations that you can both achieve  

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Welcome to episode 279 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Stella Harris to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can have a successful threesome, looking at cuckolding and hotwifing and how you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome. 

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities.  
 
Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools. 

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.  

In this episode, you will hear: 

• What do we mean when we say threesome? 
• Looking at cuckolding and hot hotwifing 
• Why it’s important to plan your threesome  
• The importance of clear communication and agreements when negotiating a threesome 
• Looking at play party spaces  

• How you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome 
• Understanding that a threesome in real life is not what like you see in porn 
• The importance of aftercare after a threesome  
• Engaging in other activities after a threesome such as a coffee or meal 
• Why you should take things very slowly and test the waters before going deeper 

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Welcome to episode 278 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Alicia Davon back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss extended massive orgasms, how you can achieve them, tips for the giver and how you can work through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm.  

Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after. 

Together with her partner Erwan, Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Working through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm  
• Looking at the first time Alicia achieved an extended orgasm  
• Understanding your body to allow involuntary genital contractions  
• Incorporating your fantasies for extended orgasms  
• Tips for the giver to help achieve extended orgasms  

• Practical tips for best movements and touch around the genitals 
• Knowing when it’s best to incorporate lube  
• Communicating effectively with your partner about what’s working and what’s not 
• Understanding the signs of when your close to an extended orgasm  

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Welcome to episode 277 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the areas where vulva owners can improve their skills on touch, analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the vulva, and how you can tune into your erotic self.     

Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality.  
She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Looking at some of the areas Vulva owners can improve their skills on touch  
• The importance of giving yourself enough time to explore your Vulva 
• How you can explore other areas of your body alongside your Vulva 
• Looking at some of the best touches, techniques and strokes you can use 
• The best way to use lube with your Vulva 
• Analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the Vulva 
• Ways in which masturbation can help you explore different parts your yourself 
• How you can practice mindful masturbation 
• Tuning into your erotic self 
• Recommendations for good sex toys you can use  

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Welcome to episode 276 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why having fantasies is important, analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy and understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand. 

Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, a certified sex therapist, is the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, the largest independent sexual health center in the country.  She’s the author of Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Point System.  She earned her Ph.D. in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in public health at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality; she holds a master’s degree in social work from Columbia University and a master’s degree in Jewish Studies from the Jewish Theological Seminary. 

Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices, and laboratories. She has lectured internationally on women’s issues, gives frequent Grand Rounds to medical health providers, as well as lecturing to sex therapists around the world.  
 
She has been a guest on numerous radio and television shows, including CNBC, CBS News, Huffington Post Live, and NPR and been profiled in the New York Times Magazine, Time Magazine, and Westchester Magazine, among others.  

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Why having fantasies is important  
• How many women fear their whole sex life is broken if one thing isn’t working  
• How fantasies are one of the most powerful tools you can use for great sex 
• Looking at how the brain functions with sexual fantasies  
• Understanding how we form sexual fantasies  

• Analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy  
• Understanding that the over-empowerment fantasy is completely normal  
• How sexual fantasies can improve sex with your partner 
• Ways in which you can get inspired for new sexual fantasies  
• Understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand  

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Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women.  
 
With over 10-years' experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• The importance of open and honest communication with your partner 
• Understanding that we can’t be mind readers and anticipate all of our partners needs
• How you can overcome a lack of creativity in the bedroom 
• Analyzing the dynamic between male and female characteristics 
• Why models on TV, social media etc are not a real representation of the human body
• Ways in which you can reassure your partner when exploring new sexual areas
• How you can use lube to greatly increase your sex life
• Understanding that masturbation is healthy and can be a part of your sexual palette  

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Welcome to episode 274 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Luna Matatas to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you and your partner can master pegging together, the importance of after-care when pegging and tips for beginners when exploring anal sex for the first time. 

Luna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom.  

She teaches a wide range of topics; including threesomes, BDSM and sexual confidence. Luna hosts The Plug Podcast, an anal sex podcast by b-Vibe. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• How Luna became interested in this line of work 
• Looking at Prostate Play  
• Understanding that straight men can also enjoy anal sex 
• Exploring pegging and how you and your partner can master it together 
• Understanding the importance of after care when pegging  

• Looking at the best practices before moving into anal penetration  
• Understanding the difference between pain and discomfort around anal sex 
• Ways you can master muscle movements with your own anus 
• Tips for beginners when exploring anal sex for the first time  
• Why bigger isn’t always better when it comes to anal sex 

• Looking at toys you can use such as butt plugs  
• Knowing the best ways to stay cleanly when exploring anal sex  

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Welcome to episode 273 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Evan Goldstein to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the best ways to explore anal sex, looking at the common mistakes people make when starting out and understanding it takes time to train your anus to make it ready for sex. 

Dr. Evan Goldstein is the Founder & CEO of Bespoke Surgical and the Co-Founder of Future Method. As the preeminent expert and thought leader in the field, Dr. Goldstein is com- mitted to education and awareness—not only bringing the important issues sur- rounding gay sexual health to the forefront, but also eliminating the stigmas at- tached to it.  

Relating to a wider audience, Dr. Goldstein leaves the medical jargon behind and communicates in a straight-forward, direct manner, breaking down taboos and allowing for more conversational and open discussions with the aim to educate. Dr. Goldstein has extensive experience educating and shedding light on health care issues relating to the gay community, and has been published in several na- tional media outlets including NBC.com, HuffPost, GQ, Men’s Health, The Advo- cate, well+good, Shape, and more. 

Supporting many LGBTQ-focused non-profits, Dr. Goldstein is dedicated to rais- ing awareness and is involved with GLSEN, ACRIA, HRC, and is a member of Callen- Lorde’s exclusive Howard J. Brown Society. Dr. Goldstein is also the founder of the Bespoke Surgical college scholarship grant for LGBTQ students, which launched in December 2017. 

Dr. Goldstein received his osteopathic doctorate from the University of Medicine and Dentistry School in 2002. Receiving the highest osteopathic education was pivotal in shaping his integrated whole-life approach towards his practice of pri- vate surgical care. Dr. Goldstein completed his residency in General Surgery at Maimonides Medical Center, exposing him to a high level of surgical acuity and a vast array of pathology. 

Dr. Goldstein and his partner Andrew Yu reside on the Upper West Side of Man- hattan with their eight-year-old twin boys, Phoenix and Sebastian. Dr. Goldstein is an avid tennis player and skier, and enjoys attending concerts, collecting art and classic cars, and spending time with his family. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• How Dr. Goldstein became interested in this line of work  
• The importance of knowing your entitlement to pleasure 
• Ways in which Dr. Goldstein works with the entire anal community  
• Why many people get anal sex wrong a lot  

• Looking at the common mistakes people make when exploring anal sex 
• Understanding it takes time to train your anus to make it ready for sex 
• Why starting out with toys is essential for anal sex 
• The pros and cons of using toys over your fingers  
• Looking at douching and recommendations for best practices 

• Knowing the best practices to reduce chances of catching STI’s via anal sex 
• Is it common to bleed after anal sex? 
• Should you use numbing creams for anal sex? 
• Looking at medical interventions that can help with better anal sex 

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Welcome to episode 272 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome La' Shae Alexander to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how exploring different positions can improve your sex life, why missionary is an underrated position and incorporating power play into certain positions. 

California Native, Renaissance Woman, Momepenuer, Writer, Real Estate Associate and Philanthropist. Shae wears many hats, all of which she like to wear in a nice dress and open toe heels. She is a blend of beauty, brains, and wit.  
 
Her fresh perspectives on life, women and empowerment gives new meaning to what it means to have beauty, class, sensuality and soul. Modern day renaissance woman, Shae is on a journey like no other. Enjoy her raw and authentic take on life and share with her endless soul filling conversations.   

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Why exploring different positions can improve your sex life  
• How you may prefer different positions as you get older 
• Looking at good instructions for your partner on the best positions 
• Why missionary is an underrated position 
• Looking at the best positions for clitoral stimulation 
• How you can use good positioning to build tension and excitement 
• Which positions are best for connecting with the G Spot 
• How deep breathing can further help your positions 
• Incorporating power play into certain positions  

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Welcome to episode 270 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Caitlin V to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss female ejaculation, why ejaculation doesn’t always mean orgasm for women, the barriers that stop women from ejaculating and looking at ways women can learn to ejaculate. 

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.  
 
She works with clients all over the world on ending premature ejaculation, preventing erectile dysfunction, and developing unshakable sexual confidence. Combining personal experience with evidence-based science in her coaching, Caitlin’s mission is to create a sex and pleasure-positive world.  

In this episode, you will hear: 

• How Caitlin went viral on YouTube 
• Is it possible for every woman to be able to ejaculate? 
• Why ejaculation doesn’t always mean orgasm for women 
• How women can feel a build of pressure over time around the issue of ejaculation 
• Looking at the barriers that stop women from ejaculating 
• Analyzing the G Spot and its role in ejaculation 
• Good fingering techniques you can use 
• Understanding the importance of communicating what you want to your partner
• Can women learn to ejaculate by themselves? 
• Looking at good stroking techniques you can use 
• Other key factors needed to ejaculate such as high level of arousal  

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Welcome to episode 269 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss using full body exploration to lead to fingering, paying attention to non-verbal cues and ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood. 

Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality.  
She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Using full body exploration to lead to fingering  
• The importance of light touch and strokes  

• How you can anticipation and excitement before fingering  
• Why slowing down to build up is important  
• How long should we be exploring other parts of the body? 
• The importance of communication with your partner 
• Building up excitement with your clothes still on  

• Ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood 
• Paying attention to non-verbal cues 
• Engaging in after-care after orgasm  
• Ways to add excitement without it becoming the main event  

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Welcome to episode 268 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ashley Manta to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs, techniques you can use to stimulate testicles and looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket”.   

Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson.  
 
She is the host of Elevated Intimacy podcast and her online course portal, Elevated Intimacy Academy, provides self-paced sex education. She facilitates retreats and workshops at resorts and festivals around the world. She also offers an online sex magick, embodiment, and empowerment intensive called Activating Your Cosmic Pussy. She is a brand ambassador for Sybian. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Ways to build excitement and arousal with handjobs  
• How sexting can help in the sexual build up  

• Why it’s important to have lube  
• Looking at some of the best lubes on the market  
• The importance of having respect for yourself and your partner  
• Understanding your partners boundaries  
• Techniques you can use to play with and stimulate testicles  

• Ways you can stimulate the foreskin  
• Looking at masturbation techniques such as “The Bottle Rocket”  
• How you can build excitement for yourself as a giver  
• Looking at other male pleasure products to further enhance a handjob 

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Welcome to episode 267 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Taylor Sparks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why impact play is hot for so many people, how impact play can create an extra layer of erotic intimacy and looking at tools you can use such as toys and spanking benches. 

Among many things, Taylor Sparks (aka Mariposa) is a passionate erotic educator and sex goddess, certified in both holistic aromatherapy and human behavior.  With over a decade of experience in the natural skin care/cosmetics industry, Ms. Sparks launched OrganicLoven.com, one of the largest BIPOC owned online intimacy shops.  Organic Loven specializes in improving adults’ sexual health/wellness and enhancing their sex lives via their organic intimate body products, body-safe sex toy materials, sex-positive books, and erotic educational seminars. 

Ms. Sparks’ expertise has contributed to articles in Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men’s Health, Oprah, Shape, Women’s Health magazines and more. Prior to launching Organic Loven she developed a line of 16 head-to-toe organic body care products for elite endurance athletes, called Skin Care for Athletes Tri-Body Products. These products were featured in Muscle & Fitness Hers and the ESPN Magazines, sponsored numerous triathlons, 5ks and marathons as well as 5 Olympic athletes in both the summer and winter Olympics.  

Taylor has also become renowned in the adult travel industry and is a powerful public speaker both nationally and internationally. Her flagship seminar entitled,” How To Make Good Pussy, Better”, is extremely popular and focuses on the benefits of organic intimate body products and body safe sex toys.   Taylor is socially and environmentally conscious and a strong supporter in all things organic, natural and eco-friendly...including Love. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Why impact play is hot for so many people  
• The importance of clear communication around spanking  
• How impact play can create an extra layer of erotic intimacy  

• Looking at the areas of sensitivity best for impact play  
• Tools you can use such as toys and spanking benches  
• Analyzing the differences between giving and receiving impact play  
• Tips for the best way to use your hand for spanking  
• The mistakes people often make with impact play  

• Understanding it’s ok to take things slowly and pause if needed 

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Fredrick’s sexuality education work has focused upon erotically marginalized communities, partnerships, and individuals since 2006 by "Teaching the Art within Sexual Acts" in private lessons, semi-public and private events, and workshops in Oregon, Washington, California, British Columbia, and via Zoom worldwide.   

They teach mindfulness, ritual, communication, consent, sexual attitudes reassessment, tantra, kink, and other embodied erotic pathways with an ever broadening understanding of power differentials, socio-political impacts over the centuries, and ways to truly dismantle what they feel in their blood and bones to be a corrupt and flawed acculturalized system.   

When not teaching or doing sexuality research; Fredrick endeavors to focus life around what they love, which is the arts, getting outside for adventures, sharing quality time and food with friends, practicing 茶道 (Chado, Japanese Tea Ritual), and movement such as yoga and dance. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Looking at the similarities between the kink and punk rock scenes 
• Understanding that it’s normal to have interest in kink  
• How kink is centered around a heart and mind connection 
• Ways in which we can cultivate our emotions to fully embody kink 
• Looking at the differences between tops and bottoms 
• How you can explore kink to know if you prefer being a submissive or dominant
• Understanding the powerplay dynamics and their relationship to kink
• Looking at ways you can step out of your comfort zone to explore kink 
• The importance of after care and clear communication  

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  

Welcome to episode 259 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT and August McLaughlin to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss triggers and how are they defined, looking at the relationship between sex and trauma and understanding the importance of practicing self-compassion.

Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT is the co-author of the innovative book: With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. A licensed therapist with an expertise in sexuality, trauma, and relationships, Jamila has been a sex educator since 2005 and has practiced psychotherapy since 2015. She is the founder and owner of the psychotherapy practice Fire & Flow Therapy. She has collaborated with Buzzfeed, MEL, Playboy, Harper’s BAZAAR and other media outlets and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including Girlboner and Sex with Dr. Jess. Jamila uses her Instagram & Facebook accounts to share practices, tools, and reflections on sexuality, relationships, and mental health. She divides her time between Las Vegas and Los Angeles.

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, a true story-driven podcast where she explores sexual empowerment, relationships and pleasure. Her articles have been featured by Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, Salon and more. Her 2018 release, Girl Boner, was featured in the New York Times and called “equally fun, risqué, and informative” by Publishers Weekly. She has presented at colleges, recovery centers, and the CDC headquarters, attended the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated changemaker and gave a TEDx talk on her experience overcoming an eating disorder she was diagnosed with while working abroad in the fashion industry.

In this episode, you will hear:

• What are triggers and how are they defined?
• How Jamila and August and became interested in this line of work
• Looking at the relationship between sex and trauma
• Understanding that issues around trauma are common
• Looking at how fight, flight and fawning works with trauma
• What is fawning and how is it related to trauma?
• The importance of practicing self-compassion
• Analyzing pleasure traps
• Understanding that you deserve to have pleasure
• Finding peace in alternative sexual behaviors
  
  

Find Jamila M. Dawson Online

https://jamiladawson.com

Find August McLaughlin Online

https://augustmclaughlin.com

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio