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Dec 29, 2020

Welcome to episode 210 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Alicia & Erwan Davon to the podcast. In this episode Alicia & Erwan speak to me about extended orgasms, accessing a higher level of arousal and ways in which you can learn to have an extended orgasm.  

 

For over 25 years Erwan who was joined by Alicia in 2003 have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. 

  

Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others 

  

Erwan studied psychology after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a yoga ashram, and began teaching personal development at one of the world’s largest personal grown organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found Erwan Davon Teachings in 1995, specifically to help people improve their relationships. 

  

Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after. 

  

Together, Erwan and Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality. 

  

They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and are excited to share their expertise with newcomers so they can help improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in others’ lives! 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How did Alicia Davon & Erwan Davon become interested in this approach? 
  • Learning to access a higher level of arousal  
  • Were they easily orgasmic before they started doing this? 
  • Ways in which you can learn to have an extended orgasm  
  • The key differences between extended orgasm and orgasmic meditation  
  • Understanding the need to get over internal issues rather than focusing on technique 
  • The differences between how men and women will get to grips with extended orgasms 
  • Learning to give yourself lots of time to be present and fully experience pleasure 
  • How you can achieve extended orgasms via any kind of sex 
  • Finding your own path to pleasure  
 
 

 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Dec 22, 2020

Welcome to episode 209 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Yekaterina Bakhta to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Bakhta speaks with me about the issues around achieving orgasms, why some women lose their sexual drive and looking at available medicines and treatments that can improve sexual desire. 

 

Dr. Yekaterina Bakhta is a board-certified ObGyn who provides exceptional care to women of all ages. Uniquely experienced in treating female sexual dysfunction, she cares for patients with painful intercourse, low libido and difficulty with orgasm. 

  

Striving to perfect female beauty and function inside and out, Dr. Bakhta utilizes the newest medications, cutting edge technology and innovative surgical techniques. . She offers a variety of treatments to enhance the female form and is developing advances in cosmetic gynecology and esthetics.  

  

Dr. Bakhta’s extensive training in minimally invasive surgical techniques include vaginal reconstruction, labioplasty, incontinence procedures as well as laparoscopic and hysteroscopic surgeries. Well respected by both colleagues and patients, she is regularly recognized and awarded for her surgical skills and patients quick post-operative recovery. 

  

She enjoys all aspects of Obstetrics and Gynecology, including wellness, contraception, and surgery. In addition to adult gynecology, Dr. Bakhta has a special interest in adolescent gynecology and gently cares for young women.  

  

Dr. Bakhta is a graduate of University of California Los Angeles, receiving Bachelor of Science degree with honors in Biology.  She received her Doctor of Medicine from the University of Southern California Keck School of Medicine.. Upon graduation, Dr. Bakhta was honored  by the Alpha Omega Alpha Medical Honor Society for her dedication to the medicine and her pursuit of healing knowledge.  She then completed residency training with Kaiser Permanente Los Angeles Medical Center.  She received board certification from the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and is an active fellow of ABOG and member of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Dr. Bakhta has been named “Leading Physician of the World” by International Association of ObGyn and has been listed as the “Top Doc” in Los Angeles. 

  

Dr. Bakhta is passionate about providing the highest level of care to her patients and empowering women to take control of their health and sexual well-being. Her patients love her for her kindness, gentle exams and sensitivity. She is very personable, and her congenial bedside manner makes it easy for patients to open up regarding sensitive subjects.  

  

She is devoted to providing excellent care for the Los Angeles community and hopes to continue guiding her patients through the stages of their lives. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Why do some women lose their sexual drive? 
  • Understanding that courtship and affection are important for female arousal  
  • Why context around sex is very important 
  • How guilt can override sexual desire 
  • Looking at the hormonal change's women go through that affect sexual desire 
  • Natural ways you can improve your libido 
  • Available medicines and treatments that can improve sexual desire 
  • Understanding potential side effects of potential treatments  
  • Looking at the issues around achieving orgasms 
 

 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio

Dec 15, 2020

Welcome to episode 208 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Ali Mushtaq to the podcast. In this episode Ali talks to me about BDSM and social justice, incorporating spirituality into sexuality and steps you can take if you’re interested in exploring BDSM.  

 

Dr. Mushtaq has his PhD in Sociology from University of California: San Francisco and Masters in Social and Demographic analysis from University of California: Irvine. He is Mr. Long Beach Leather 2016 and has been profiled by numerous editorials, including the New York Times.  Ali also has written several op-eds and scholarly articles that focus on race and sexuality. He is also a former college professor and has taught numerous courses that have focused on sexual identity and research methods. Currently, he is coauthoring a book on Black women AIDS activists and is on contact with Lexington Press. 

  

Dr. Mushtaq also founded and owns Getting Wolfie LLC, which provides education related to diversity and empowerment. In addition to courses that focus on developing inclusive methods in marketing, he is also develops socially inclusive BDSM education courses that focus on sexual empowerment. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How Dr. Ali became introduced and interested in BDSM 
  • Looking at Dr. Ali’s experience of coming out  
  • The community's reaction to Dr. Ali becoming interested in BDSM  
  • The misconceptions that exist around BDSM 
  • Bridging the gap between BDSM and social justice  
  • Informing people about the history and dynamics of BDSM 
  • Incorporating spirituality into sexuality  
  • How communities can be more inclusive for people of different ethnicities  
  • Steps you can take if you’re interested in exploring BDSM  
  • Analyzing the common question of when does BDSM become abuse? 
  • Understanding the need to frequently check in on consent  
 
 

 

Find Ali Mushtaq online 

 

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http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media 

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Quiz: What Kind of Lover are You?

  

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Dec 8, 2020

Welcome to episode 207 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Lucy Rowett to the podcast. In this episode Lucy speaks to me about reclaiming sexuality after being raised as an Evangelical Christian, learning to challenge negative sex messages and dispelling the myth that having sexual feelings is sinful.  

 

Lucy Rowett is a sexologist and intimacy coach based in Brighton, UK. She describes herself as an Evangelical Sexologist and pleasure advocate, who is passionate about empowering women to liberate their bodies and souls from the shackles of shame. She uses a fusion of "neck up" and "neck down" approaches, combining sexology and accurate sexuality education with somatic practices, taoism, tantra, and embodiment.  

 

As a sexpert, she has been quoted in many online publications such as Kinkly, Men's Health, Glamour, Dame, O Diaries, Oprah Magazine, Brides, Tinder Swipe Life, and The Body. She grew up in London in the 90s and 00s in the Church, and got the full whammy of Purity Culture, which she spent years deconstructing. She is passionate about exploring the intersections of faith, sexuality, and shame. She is also a fanatic tea connoisseur, devourer of books, lover of dancing, and slave to cats. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Lucy’s experience growing up from a religious background 
  • Looking at Evangelical Christianity  
  • Understanding the myth’s around purity culture 
  • The impact sex had on popular culture in the 90’s / 00’s  
  • How Lucy decided Evangelical Christianity wasn’t the right path for her 
  • Combining sexuality and spirituality  
  • Learning to challenge negative sex messages 
  • How to positively question people in positions of authority  
  • Going through the process of faith de-construction 
  • Learning to understand and use Tantra to connect with your sexual self 
  • Dispelling the myth that having sexual feelings is sinful  

 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Dec 1, 2020

Welcome to episode 206 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Kathryn Klement to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Klement speaks with me about sexual narcissism, its effects on relationships, early signs and red flags and exploring sexual boundaries with your partner.  

 

Dr. Kathryn Klement (they/them) is an Assistant Professor of Psychology of Women & Gender at Bemidji State University.  Their primary teaching interests are human sexuality, gender, and research methods.  Their major research interests include sexual violence, how transphobia relates to other systems of oppression, and transgender patients’ experiences in healthcare.  They have also published work related to consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism), sexual consent, and sexual entitlement.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • What is sexual narcissism? 
  • Identifying sexual narcissism in relationships 
  • The effect patriarchy has on this issue 
  • Looking at the research Dr. Klement conducted  
  • Early signs and red flags for sexual narcissism 
  • Exploring your boundaries for sex and sexuality  
  • Understanding your partners boundaries and creating a sexual pact  
  • Understanding that can’t use sex to change a person into how you want them to be 

 

Find Dr. Kathryn Klement online 

 

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Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

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Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Nov 24, 2020

Welcome to episode 205 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Tripp Kramer to the podcast. In this episode Tripp speaks with me about how men can learn to better talk to women, the traps men fall into when trying to initiate sex too quickly, and understanding the role and importance of emotional safety.  

 

Tripp Kramer is an internationally known dating coach and founder of Tripp Advice, a men's dating advice company. He is also the creator of the popular YouTube channel "Tripp Advice", which teaches men how to become more attractive to women and host of his own weekly podcast entitled "How To Talk To Girls". Tripp currently resides in Chicago Illinois. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The common mistakes men make when talking to women  
  • Looking at the negative experience's men have when trying to talk to women  
  • The importance of being authentic and true to yourself 
  • Looking at the issue of rejection and how to deal with it 
  • Why you need to listen as much as you talk  
  • The traps men fall into when trying to initiate sex too quickly  
  • Why women will often respond negatively to rushing into sex 
  • Understanding emotional safety  
 
 

 

Find Tripp Kramer online 

 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Nov 17, 2020

Welcome to episode 204 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Ian speaks with me about the psychological reasons men have low desire, the negative consequences shame can have on your sex life and learning to reconnect with your sexual self. 

 

Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author She Comes First (Harper Collins), which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He regularly consults for articles in major publications such as The Atlantic and The Economist, and he also writes on the topic of sex for CNN Health. He is the co-director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of New York's oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities.  

 

In addition to being a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and he is also a member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR) and The American Family Therapy Academy (AFTA). Ian was born and raised in New York City, where he maintains a private practice and lives with his wife and two sons, and their beloved dogs, Jitterbug and Oscar.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Looking the psychological reasons men have low desire? 
  • Why we as individuals want to self-actualize more  
  • Learning to expand your erotic space that will lend itself to desire 
  • How your self image can affect how you are in the bedroom 
  • Looking at the sexual boredom study Ian previously conducted 
  • The negative consequences shame can have on your sex life 
  • Why we might have become disconnected from our sexual selves 
  • Learning to reconnect with your sexual self  
  • The role that porn plays around this issue 
 

 

Find Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT online 

https://www.iankerner.com  

 

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Find Dr. Moali online:   

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Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Nov 10, 2020

Welcome to episode 203 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Judson Brandeis to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Brandeis talks to me about the issues of low testosterone, how can you increase your testosterone levels and analyzing how a healthy lifestyle will lead to a better sex drive.  

 

Dr. Judson Brandeis is a board-certified urologist specializing in men's sexual medicine. Brandeis has always been on the cutting edge of Urology. Dr. Judson Brandeis has been voted by SF Magazine as a Top Urologist in the SF Bay Area from 2014 to 2020.  In February of 2019, he opened his male-oriented office in San Ramon to focus his practice entirely on men’s sexual health and rejuvenation. BrandeisMD is a national leader in technology and innovations in sexual medicine.  Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for ED ever. 

  

Brandeis has appeared on The Doctor's TV Show and recent podcasts with Michael Ruscio and Ben Greenfield. He has also been featured in Maxim, Fatherly, Bustle, and Askmen. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The differences between men and women’s sexual drive  
  • Looking at testosterone levels and how they relate to a healthy sex life 
  • What are the causes of low testosterone? 
  • Changing your testosterone levels through diet and exercise  
  • Analyzing reasons why Viagra may not be working for you 
  • The importance of relaxation for a healthy erection 
  • Understanding how a healthy lifestyle will further boost your efforts for a higher sex drive 
  • Looking at the importance of nighttime erections 
 

 

Find Dr. Judson Brandeis Online 

https://brandeismd.com  

 

Find Promescent Online 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Nov 3, 2020

Welcome to episode 202 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham to the podcast. In this episode Jeff speaks to me about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, common questions that men bring up when talking about these issues and we take a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent. 

 

Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women. With over 10-years experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Common questions that men bring up about their sexuality when talking about premature ejaculation  
  • The differences between men and women on what is a priority for good sex 
  • The frustration that can build when you feel your partner isn’t present during sex 
  • Taking a look at the arousal gap 
  • Looking at available solutions for premature ejaculation  
  • Understanding the importance of giving and receiving for great sex  
  • Taking a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent 
  • Are there side effects such as numbness when using Promescent? 
  • Boosting your confidence for better sex  
 
 

 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 31, 2020

Welcome to a bonus Halloween episode of the Sexology Podcast! On this episode, I talk about how you can get playful with Halloween themes in the bedroom with my guest, sex therapist and host of Sex Talk with Erika, Erika Miley.

 

Erika Miley is the founder and practice owner of The Center for Mental and Sexual Health. She believes in accessible, confidential, and comfortable therapy. Erika graduated from Whitworth University with a Master’s of Education in Clinical Mental Health. She has worked in public agencies, prisons, and in her own private practice. Erika’s specialty lies in Sexuality, working with monogamous and non-monogamous couples, non-binary genders, as well as people who suffer from anxiety and depression.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

  • The importance of incorporating fun in your sex life during these turbulent times
  • Tapping into different dynamics to surprise your partner
  • Role playing by dressing up in costumes
  • Changing locations for something exciting and new
  • How to work in exhibitionism in a safe and legal way
  • Paint your partner’s body and let them paint yours with edible paint
  • Halloween is the perfect time to introduce your fantasies to your partner
  • Temperature play with candles, oils, and ice
  • Incorporating food into your play
  • Do a sexy scavenger hunt
  • Attend a virtual women-led sex party
  • Use Halloween-themed sex toys

 

 

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www.sextalkwitherika.com

Instagram @erikamileytherapy

https://www.facebook.com/groups/sextalkprogroup 

Twitter @MrsErikaMiley

 

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Oct 27, 2020

Today on the Sexology Podcast we are celebrating our 200th episode! We’ll be revisiting past episodes that our listeners selected as the ones that helped them the most and provided the best sex advice.  

 

In this episode, you will hear clips from:  

 

Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a clinical-social psychologist, has received numerous awards for her work on sexuality and has written a dozen books on relationships, sexuality and menopause in addition to a number of video tapes and audio tapes.  

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach  

  

Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/12/03/art-and-science-of-seduction-with-dr-alison-ash/  

  

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/08/20/how-to-last-longer-in-bed/  

 

Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/07/ep158-7-ways-to-upgrade-your-sex-life-according-to-sexperts/  

  

Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle.

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/  

  

Stephen Snyder MD is a sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist who has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/07/28/ep187-the-key-to-great-sex-in-long-term-relationships-with-dr-stephen-snyder/  

  

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You’re the One Who Cheated and Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/11/05/ep149-the-monogamy-paradox-with-dr-tammy-nelson  

  

Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture.

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/28/how-to-overcome-sexual-shyness-with-carol-queen-phd/  

  

Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, examines how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/09/03/sex-relationships-adhd-with-dr-ari-tuckman/  

  

Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra® and the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas  

 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 20, 2020

Welcome to episode 199 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Tina speaks with me about overcoming religious shame around sex, taking a look at the historical context of abstinence and learning how to remain within your religion whilst having a healthy sex life.  

 

Dr. Tina is a vibrant thought leader around issues of sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Her life’s work is centered around rooting out the causes of sexual shame and providing tools that disarm and demystify all the negative messages that we receive in American culture and so often in religious circles. She regularly speaks at events, conferences, intimacy retreats, churches, and universities around the country. 

  

Dr. Tina is a sex therapist, former professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Seattle Pacific University, founder of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, AASECT-certified supervisor, mother, wife, and author. She is currently doing work on her next book, which is intended to help parents raise their children free of sexual shame and appropriately teach them about healthy sexuality over each stage of their development. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How Tina became interested in this line of work  
  • Looking back at abstinence only teachings  
  • How couples struggle holding out on sex until after marriage  
  • Understanding the historical context around the issue of sex and religion  
  • Remaining in your religion whilst having a healthy sex life 
  • Learning to appreciate your body 
  • How to begin the process of not being ashamed of wanting to have sex  
 

 

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Find Dr. Tina Online 

https://www.tinaschermersellers.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

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https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 13, 2020

Welcome to episode 198 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Rebecca Gibson to the podcast. In this episode Rebecca speaks with me about sex robots, how people become attracted to them, why they won’t help you with relational skills and what the future holds as technology and AI continue to improve.  

Rebecca Gibson is an adjunct professor at American University and Indiana University South Bend. Her published works include "Desire in the Age of Robots and AI: An Investigation in Science Fiction and Fact" (Palgrave Macmillan 2019) and "The Corseted Skeleton: A Bioarchaeology of Binding" (Palgrave Macmillan 2020).  

She holds a PhD in Anthropology from American University, and when not writing or teaching can be found reading mystery novels amidst a pile of stuffed animals.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  • What are sex robots?  
  • How did Rebecca become interested in this line of work? 
  • Why is there a lack of male sex robots? 
  • Looking at the reasons why people become attracted to sex robots 
  • How the Turning Test is being used to make sex robots more interesting  
  • How sex robots fill a gap for people who can’t get access to sex  
  • The way in which many sex robots reflect their creators 
  • Why sex robots won’t help you with relational skills  
  • What is going to be the future trends of sex robots? 

 

25 Ways to Increase Desire 

https://oasis2care.com/opt-in/ 

 

Find Rebecca Online 

https://www.facebook.com/TheCorsetedSkeleton  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 6, 2020

Welcome to episode 197 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Diamond to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Diamond talks to me about how we can best use the daimonic in our lives, analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies and different ways we can engage with our fantasies.  

 

Dr. Stephen Diamond is a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist practicing in Los Angeles, CA. A former pupil and protégé of existential psychoanalyst Rollo May, he is the author of Anger, Madness, and the Daimonic: The Psychological Genesis of Violence, Evil, and Creativity (State University of New York Press, 1996). Dr. Diamond has contributed chapters to the bestselling anthology Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature (1990), Spirituality and Psychological Health (2005), the Encyclopedia of Psychology and Religion (2009), Writing Music (2018), a chapter titled "Existential Therapy: Confronting Life's Ultimate Concerns" to the textbook Contemporary Theory and Practice in Counseling and Psychotherapy (SAGE, 2015), and, most recently, a chapter titled “Existential Explorations of Psychopathy” for a forthcoming forensic psychology text.  

  

His writing has also appeared in various professional journals such as the San Francisco Jung Institute Library Journal, Psychological Perspectives, the Journal of Applied Psychoanalytic Studies, PsycCRITIQUES, Existential Analysis, and Dasein, and he has lectured and taught at diverse institutions including Pacific Graduate School of Psychology (Palo Alto University), J.F.K. University, Argosy University, the C.G. Jung Institute-Zurich, Ryokan College, Loyola Marymount University, and the Existential Academy in London.  

  

Dr. Diamond appears frequently as a guest expert in made-for-television documentaries about high-profile criminal cases. Presently, he authors a long-running blog titled “Evil Deeds” for Psychology Today, serves on the editorial board of JHP, and maintains a private psychotherapy practice. He is a contracted provider of psychotherapy for Kaiser Permanente Medical Group, and is also currently employed as a Consulting Psychologist for a private subacute psychiatric hospital in Sylmar, CA.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Taking a look at the daimonic quality of sex  
  • How aspects of the daimonic can take over or possess us  
  • How can we channel the daimonic for our creativity?  
  • Understanding what our sexual fantasies and desires might mean 
  • Learning to embrace and not shut out your fantasies  
  • Connecting with your erotic self  
  • The difference between thinking about a fantasy and acting one out  
  • Different ways we can engage with our fantasies  
  • Analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies  
  • How using the daimonic can be a source of energy  
 
 

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women 

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

 

Find Dr. Diamond Online 

http://www.drstephendiamond.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 29, 2020

Welcome to episode 196 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Cyndi Darnell to the podcast. In this episode Cyndi talks to me about dating in the time of coronavirus, exploring your sexuality during a pandemic and improving intimacy during this challenging time. 

 

Cyndi Darnell is a NY based, internationally renowned sex & relationships therapist & clinical sexologist. Originally from Australia, her approach spans the clinical to the esoteric. Her academic work is published in the Journal of Sex Education (UK) & Sexual & Relationship Therapy (UK). 

  

She holds a board affiliate position for the University of Wisconsin - Stout Graduate Certificate in Sex Therapy Program. She’s a clinical associate with Pink Therapy UK and faculty on Pink Therapy's Foundation Certificate in Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity Therapy and at New York’s Omega Institute. 

  

Her online courses  and podcast The Erotic Philosopher meet today’s adult sex education needs by bridging the gaps in peoples’ knowledge regarding pleasure, relationships, passion and desire. As a trusted media source, her wisdom has been published in media outlets globally including The Washington Post, O -The Oprah Magazine, New York Magazine, Huffington Post, Bustle, Vice, Cosmo, Sydney Morning Herald, The Guardian and Aussie TV series LukeWarmSex for ABC. She’s spearheading progressive sex & relationships seminars and workshops for adults that deeply change people’s lives. In 2015 she was the only sexologist named on MindBodyGreen’s Top 100 Women to Watch. 

  

She maintains a global consulting practice in NYC and online and offers insight into the quandaries of the erotic to transform fear into freedom. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Should we be dating during a pandemic? 
  • Looking at the different types of dating currently available to us  
  • Recommendations for improving communication skills  
  • Exploring your sexuality during a pandemic 
  • Is it safe to have hook up sex? 
  • Can we pursue longer term relationships through Covid? 
  • How we can improve intimacy during this challenging time 
  • Will our dating lives change forever? 
  • What a new normal might look like for dating  
  • Finding ways to not get overwhelmed by the restrictive nature dating during a pandemic 
  • Using the time we have to reflect on what we really want from our sexuality and relationships  

 

Sex Quiz for Women 

https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz/ 

 

Find Cyndi Online 

http://www.cyndidarnell.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 22, 2020

Welcome to episode 195 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Erika Ettin to the podcast. In this episode Erika talks to me about online dating, the best practices you can use to meet people online and things to consider for yourself and the person you’re engaging with when dating online.  

 

Erika Ettin is the Founder of A Little Nudge, a consulting company that helps people navigate the world of online dating, from first click to first date. She is also the author of the book Love at First Site and the co-host of the popular dating podcast So, We Met Online… 

  

Erika studied economics at Cornell University and received her MBA from Georgetown. She started A Little Nudge in 2011 (after a seven-year career as an economist). She is responsible for many relationships, marriages, and the confidence some people simply need to “get out there.” 

  

A Little Nudge has been featured in media around the country, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, NPR, Good Day Philadelphia, CBS, and Ask Men, and she currently writes a weekly syndicated dating column.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How well does online dating work? 
  • Does online dating work better dependent on your sexuality?  
  • Looking at the issue of perceived flaws  
  • Understanding that you need to need cast a wide net to get a good amount of quality responses 
  • The common mistakes people make when dating online 
  • The importance of being authentic and truthful when representing yourself 
  • Be positive about yourself but don’t over-do it 
  • Seeking out niche sites for those into Kink, BDSM etc  
  • Being honest about your intentions whether it’s a one-night stand or long-term relationship 
 
 

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday in September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women 

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

 

Find Erika Online 

https://www.alittlenudge.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 15, 2020

Welcome to episode 194 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer your questions about ways in which you can improve your sex life. We’ll look at issues such as sexual trauma re-enactment, improving your sex life after the honeymoon period and the importance of intimacy after sex.  

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Why we engage in trauma re-enactment and ways to overcome those behaviors 
  • Learning to confront what happened in the past 
  • The importance of body work that can be healing  
  • How power play and BDSM can help overcome trauma 
  • Looking at the dynamics of bisexuality  
  • Understanding when the right time is to start taking medication 
  • Improving your sex life after the “Honeymoon Period”  
  • The importance of communicating effectively and directly with your partner about what you want sexually  
  • How masturbation can affect our sleep cycles  
  • Using masturbation as a crutch to get better sleep 
  • The importance of intimacy after sex  
  • Looking at cultural differences in sex

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday in September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 8, 2020

Welcome to episode 193 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Ariel Watriss to the podcast. In this episode, Ariel speaks to me about how she became involved working around the STIs, misconceptions people still have about STIs and analyzing the risks around sex.  

 

Ariel Watriss (she/hers) is a nurse practitioner currently working in college health at Tufts University Health Services. She started there in 2013 and in June 2018 was promoted to be the Sexual health specialist for the clinic.  

  

She received her bachelor’s and master’s degrees in nursing from the MGH Institute of Health Professions School of Nursing in 2011. Prior to her time at Tufts, she worked at the Fenway Community Health Center in their research department, the Fenway Institute. She was the primary clinician providing care to study participants and performed medical procedures in multiple HIV prevention biomedical studies, including HIV PrEP studies.  

  

Before attending nursing school, she ran the HIV counseling, testing and family planning programs at the Sidney Borum Jr Health Center (a health center for disenfranchised and LGBTQ youth). She was the recipient of the American College Health Association (ACHA) 2015 Affiliate New Professionals Award for the New England area.  

  

Her professional passions include LGBTQIA health, sexual health, and helping young adults navigate their own health advocacy. She has presented talks at national and regional conferences on HIV PrEP/PEP/sexual health, and has served as a panelist on CDC HIV prevention education programs. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How did Ariel get into this work? 
  • Misconceptions around STIs  
  • Looking at the issue of shame and best ways to counteract it  
  • Analyzing the risks around sex 
  • The basic information that people need to be well informed  
  • Looking at the hierarchy of concerns around STIs  
  • How there is a lot of confusion and stigma around herpes  
  • Looking at the treatments available for STIs in 2020  
  • Why an STI diagnosis is not a death sentence or the end of your sex life 
  • Learning when to best communicate you have an STI to a partner of prospective partner  
  • Navigating hook up culture with STIs  
 
 

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday in September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Ariel Watriss here:  

https://twitter.com/watrissa  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 1, 2020

Welcome to episode 192 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome back Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir and I talk about medical treatments for sexual dysfunctions, looking at the issues that cause sex to be painful and learning to change your lifestyle to improve your sex life.  

  

Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”. 

  

Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Is there a medical treatment for those who find sex painful?  
  • Looking at the issues that cause sex to be painful  
  • How menopause can affect sex and sexuality  
  • Looking at medical prescriptions and if they can help  
  • Analyzing the effectiveness of Viagra and other medicines for erectile dysfunction   
  • Understanding that Viagra won’t help with the root cause of the issue 
  • How a healthy lifestyle can drastically improve erections  
  • Adapting your sexual life around hormonal changes  
  • How chronic iron deficiency can affect sexual desire  
  • Learning to change your lifestyle to improve your sex life  

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram from Friday 4th September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Amir here:  

EP175 with Amir Mohebbi

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

 

Aug 25, 2020

Welcome to episode 191 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Kelli Palfy to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Palfy talks to me about male sexual abuse, the stigma around this issue and understanding that recovery is possible.  

 

Dr. Palfy has a unique background in working with victims of sexual abuse.  She obtained her Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Alberta in 2016. When conducting her doctoral research, she examined the reasons why males do not commonly disclose sexual abuse. She was well-prepared to research this topic from the experience she gained in her prior profession in law enforcement. From 1995 - 2011 when she was a respected member of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. During this, her prior career she focused on sex crimes investigations and specialized in the global sexual victimization of children where she gained experience in identifying the sophisticated grooming tactics used by perpetrators.   

  

Dr. Palfy brings the many facets of her unique combination of professional experience and perspective to her practice. She is now a trained trauma therapist and public speaker. As a private practitioner, she works with male survivors of sexual abuse, as well as first responders and couples. She is trained in the use of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Outside of her professional life she is an avid outdoor adventurer, enjoying hiking, cycling, swimming, kayaking, and paddle boarding. She treasures her time with good friends and her pets. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How did Dr Palfy become interested in this work?  
  • The stigma that men face around this issue  
  • The misconceptions men encounter around this topic  
  • Looking at how the abusers can often be someone we know 
  • Understanding that physical pleasure doesn’t mean consent  
  • Looking at the sexual orientation piece of survivors 
  • The dysfunctional ways survivors are coping after trauma  
  • Sexual dysfunctions that can manifest in survivors  
  • How to communicate being a survivor to your partner  
  • Understanding that recovery is possible  
  • Learning to commit to trauma treatment and the benefits it has  
 
 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

 

Find Dr. Palfy online: 

http://kellipalfy.com/ 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Aug 18, 2020

Welcome to episode 190 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Tim Norton to the podcast. In this episode Tim speaks with me about erectile dysfunction, ways in which you can begin to tackle this issue, connecting with how sex feels rather than how we perceive it to be and myth busting the idea that bigger is always better when it comes to penis size.  

 

Tim Norton is a Los Angeles-based sex therapist working in private practice, and host of a podcast on erectile issues and male sexuality - Hard Conversations. He obtained his bachelor’s and master’s degrees from the University of Southern California.  

 

Tim is a proud member of American Association of Sex Counselors, Educators, and Therapists (AASECT), the Los Angeles Sexological Association, and works part-time with the Pain Psychology Center in Beverly Hills.     

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Distinguishing between erectile dysfunction and dissatisfaction  
  • The psychological barriers that can get in the way of a good erection 
  • Ways in which you can start to tackle and overcome this issue  
  • Connecting with how sex feels rather than how we perceive it to be 
  • How our busy lives can get in the way of good erections  
  • Learning how to get in a better mental space for better erections  
  • Looking at penis size – does it matter?  
  • Ways you can teach yourself to last longer in bed 
  • Tackling self-esteem issues that could be getting in the way  

 

What Kind Of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Tim Norton online: 

https://www.timnortontherapy.com 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Aug 11, 2020

Welcome to episode 189 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome GS Youngblood, to the podcast. In this episode GS Youngblood talks to me about leading from your masculine core, the importance of sexual leadership and understanding the masculine blueprint.  

 

GS Youngblood coaches men in relationships on how to live, love, and lead from their Masculine core. He specializes in “nice guys” who are with strong women. His teachings combine deep embodiment work with the framework of the Masculine blueprint from his book “The Masculine in Relationship”. Learn more at gsyoungblood.com. 

  

His writings are filtered through the laboratory of his and his clients’ real-world, long term relationships (including the successes and spectacular failures) to see what actually works and what doesn’t. Through this lens of Masculine leadership, he also pulls in principles from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM. 

  

Reception to the book has been phenomenal. Both from men (“You just described my married life to perfection…” and “This is the best book I’ve EVER read on masculinity in a relationship”) and women (“I just picked up your book off my coffee table that my husband bought and it’s like you’ve been listening to me talk for the last few years! Insane how much you get it.”) 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How GS became interested in this area of work 
  • Looking at masculinity core  
  • How men can learn to be within their own power  
  • Defining masculine energy  
  • The importance of sexual leadership 
  • Understanding women can be disinterested in only certain types of sex  
  • Learning how to properly communicate these issues to your partner  
  • Understanding if this is your issue or your partners or both  
  • Looking at the masculine blueprint  
 
 

 

Better Help 

Thank you to our sponsor Better Help. Every day, thousands of people seek the help of a licensed therapist. If you are a psychologist, marriage & family therapist, clinical social worker or board licensed professional counselor, BetterHelp is the easiest way to apply your clinical expertise online. https://betterhelp.com/sexology 

 

What Kind Of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find GS Youngblood online: 

https://www.gsyoungblood.com/ 

 

Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Aug 4, 2020

Welcome to episode 188 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lanae St. John, to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Lanae speaks with me about how to have better conversations with our kids around sex, empowering them with the tools and knowledge they will need and how parents can better understand sexual orientation and gender identity.  

 

Dr. Lanae St John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist, certified sex coach, and sexuality educator. She is author of “Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk”. Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her significant other and two daughters. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The hurdles we face talking to our kids about sex  
  • Being aware and noticing the issues around you  
  • How a shame spiral can easily develop  
  • The importance of talking to your partner about sex  
  • Taking a genital self-exam  
  • Overcoming issues of using sexual language with kids  
  • How Dr. Lanae turned the narrative around 
  • Looking at incorporating fantasy  
  • Teaching kids that pleasure from sex is okay
  • Empowering our kids with the knowledge and tools they’ll need 
  • Learning to have a constructive conversation around STI’s  
  • How parents can better understand sexual orientation and gender identity  
 
 

 

Better Help 

Thank you to our sponsor Better Help. Every day, thousands of people seek the help of a licensed therapist. If you are a psychologist, marriage & family therapist, clinical social worker or board licensed professional counselor, BetterHelp is the easiest way to apply your clinical expertise online. https://betterhelp.com/sexology 

 

Checklist for Parents 

 

Find Dr. Lanae online: 

 

Free Chapter: Read Me: A Parental Primer for "The Talk"

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jul 28, 2020

Welcome to episode 187 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Stephen Snyder to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Snyder talks to me about having better sex in long term monogamous relationships, creating better psychological arousal and recommendations to improve your sex life.  

 

Stephen Snyder MD — sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist — has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. Over 30+ years, he’s helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction in their relationships. 

  

Dr. Snyder is Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City and the author of one of the most acclaimed sex and relationship books of our time, LOVE WORTH MAKING: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship (St Martin’s Press, 2018).    

  

As an MD sex therapist, Dr. Snyder has a unique combination of skills that enables him to handle the most complex, difficult situations. He received his medical degree from the University of California, San Francisco (M.D. 1983), trained in internal medicine at Mt Zion Medical Center in San Francisco (1983-84), then in psychiatry at the Payne Whitney Clinic, New York Hospital / Cornell University Medical Center (1984-87) and as a Fellow in Behavioral Medicine at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in NYC (1987-89).  

  

Dr. Snyder was Director of the Psychiatric Consultation Service at Mount Sinai Medical Center from 1990-2000. Since 2000, he has been in full-time private practice in Manhattan, specializing in sex and relationship concerns. 

  

Dr. Snyder is an active member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR); has been a presenter, workshop leader, and discussant at the Society’s national meetings; and has served on its Professional Book Award Committee and as Chairman of its Consumer Book Award committee. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • What are the barriers experience people in monogamous relationships face?  
  • How do you define good sex?  
  • Looking at psychological arousal  
  • How passion is erotic selfishness  
  • Creating psychological space for arousal  
  • The role that fantasy plays in this issue  
  • Why women lose interest in sex in long term relationships  
  • Recommendations to improve your sex life in a long-term relationship  
  • The fear men hold about disappointing their partners  
  • Looking at the issue of erectile dysfunction   
 
 

 

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Find Dr. Snyder online: 

https://www.sexualityresource.com/ 

 

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http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jul 21, 2020

Welcome to episode 186 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lyndsey Harper to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Harper talks to me about how to increase your sexual desire at any stage in life, evidence-based ways to increase your libido and we take a look at her wonderful app – Rosy.  

 

Lyndsey Harper, MD is the Founder and CEO of Rosy, an app for women with decreased sexual desire. Dr. Harper created Rosy out of frustration when she couldn’t find a modern and accessible resource to help her many patients with this problem. Rosy is a resource to connect the 25 million women in the US with decreased sexual desire with hope, community, and research-backed solutions to improve their lives.  

 

Dr. Harper completed Ob/Gyn residency in 2011 at Baylor Scott & White Health in Dallas, Texas, and Dr. Harper saw patients in private practice for seven years and now is a hospitalist. Dr. Harper is Associate Professor of Ob/Gyn for Texas A&M College of Medicine, a Fellow of The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and a Fellow of the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Does menopause effect your sex life? 
  • Looking at the feeling of having your desire stolen from you 
  • Are hormonal treatments effective?  
  • How sex can be become a physically painful experience  
  • They key ingredients for people having a fulfilled sexual life 
  • The importance of communication  
  • How you can advocate for yourself  
  • Learning to be brief and direct  
  • Evidence based ways to increase your libido  
  • Looking at Dr. Harper’s fantastic app – Rosy  
 

 

Better Help 

Thank you to our sponsor, Better Help.

If you are a psychologist, marriage & family therapist, clinical social worker or board licensed professional counselor, BetterHelp is the easiest way to apply your clinical expertise online.

Visit https://betterhelp.com/sexology and complete a brief application to get started.

 

Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women: 

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

 

Find Dr. Harper online: 

https://meetrosy.com/ 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

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