Welcome to episode 279 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Stella Harris to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can have a successful threesome, looking at cuckolding and hotwifing and how you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome. 

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities.  
 
Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools. 

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.  

In this episode, you will hear: 

• What do we mean when we say threesome? 
• Looking at cuckolding and hot hotwifing 
• Why it’s important to plan your threesome  
• The importance of clear communication and agreements when negotiating a threesome 
• Looking at play party spaces  

• How you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome 
• Understanding that a threesome in real life is not what like you see in porn 
• The importance of aftercare after a threesome  
• Engaging in other activities after a threesome such as a coffee or meal 
• Why you should take things very slowly and test the waters before going deeper 

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https://www.stellaharris.net  

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Welcome to episode 278 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Alicia Davon back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss extended massive orgasms, how you can achieve them, tips for the giver and how you can work through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm.  

Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after. 

Together with her partner Erwan, Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Working through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm  
• Looking at the first time Alicia achieved an extended orgasm  
• Understanding your body to allow involuntary genital contractions  
• Incorporating your fantasies for extended orgasms  
• Tips for the giver to help achieve extended orgasms  

• Practical tips for best movements and touch around the genitals 
• Knowing when it’s best to incorporate lube  
• Communicating effectively with your partner about what’s working and what’s not 
• Understanding the signs of when your close to an extended orgasm  

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Welcome to episode 277 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the areas where vulva owners can improve their skills on touch, analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the vulva, and how you can tune into your erotic self.     

Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality.  
She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights. 

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Looking at some of the areas Vulva owners can improve their skills on touch  
• The importance of giving yourself enough time to explore your Vulva 
• How you can explore other areas of your body alongside your Vulva 
• Looking at some of the best touches, techniques and strokes you can use 
• The best way to use lube with your Vulva 
• Analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the Vulva 
• Ways in which masturbation can help you explore different parts your yourself 
• How you can practice mindful masturbation 
• Tuning into your erotic self 
• Recommendations for good sex toys you can use  

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Welcome to episode 276 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why having fantasies is important, analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy and understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand. 

Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, a certified sex therapist, is the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, the largest independent sexual health center in the country.  She’s the author of Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Point System.  She earned her Ph.D. in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in public health at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality; she holds a master’s degree in social work from Columbia University and a master’s degree in Jewish Studies from the Jewish Theological Seminary. 

Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices, and laboratories. She has lectured internationally on women’s issues, gives frequent Grand Rounds to medical health providers, as well as lecturing to sex therapists around the world.  
 
She has been a guest on numerous radio and television shows, including CNBC, CBS News, Huffington Post Live, and NPR and been profiled in the New York Times Magazine, Time Magazine, and Westchester Magazine, among others.  

In this episode, you will hear: 

• Why having fantasies is important  
• How many women fear their whole sex life is broken if one thing isn’t working  
• How fantasies are one of the most powerful tools you can use for great sex 
• Looking at how the brain functions with sexual fantasies  
• Understanding how we form sexual fantasies  

• Analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy  
• Understanding that the over-empowerment fantasy is completely normal  
• How sexual fantasies can improve sex with your partner 
• Ways in which you can get inspired for new sexual fantasies  
• Understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand  

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