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Sexology podcast untangles the science of sex and pleasure. Each week, Dr. Nazanin Moali interviews experts, psychologists and researchers to explore the most intriguing findings in psychology of sex and intimacy. Sexology podcast will give you insight into all that you have ever wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask. Join us in this weekly journey to examine sexuality and pleasure from a scientific perspective.
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Nov 10, 2020

Welcome to episode 203 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Judson Brandeis to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Brandeis talks to me about the issues of low testosterone, how can you increase your testosterone levels and analyzing how a healthy lifestyle will lead to a better sex drive.  

 

Dr. Judson Brandeis is a board-certified urologist specializing in men's sexual medicine. Brandeis has always been on the cutting edge of Urology. Dr. Judson Brandeis has been voted by SF Magazine as a Top Urologist in the SF Bay Area from 2014 to 2020.  In February of 2019, he opened his male-oriented office in San Ramon to focus his practice entirely on men’s sexual health and rejuvenation. BrandeisMD is a national leader in technology and innovations in sexual medicine.  Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for ED ever. 

  

Brandeis has appeared on The Doctor's TV Show and recent podcasts with Michael Ruscio and Ben Greenfield. He has also been featured in Maxim, Fatherly, Bustle, and Askmen. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The differences between men and women’s sexual drive  
  • Looking at testosterone levels and how they relate to a healthy sex life 
  • What are the causes of low testosterone? 
  • Changing your testosterone levels through diet and exercise  
  • Analyzing reasons why Viagra may not be working for you 
  • The importance of relaxation for a healthy erection 
  • Understanding how a healthy lifestyle will further boost your efforts for a higher sex drive 
  • Looking at the importance of nighttime erections 
 

 

Find Dr. Judson Brandeis Online 

https://brandeismd.com  

 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Nov 3, 2020

Welcome to episode 202 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham to the podcast. In this episode Jeff speaks to me about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, common questions that men bring up when talking about these issues and we take a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent. 

 

Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women. With over 10-years experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Common questions that men bring up about their sexuality when talking about premature ejaculation  
  • The differences between men and women on what is a priority for good sex 
  • The frustration that can build when you feel your partner isn’t present during sex 
  • Taking a look at the arousal gap 
  • Looking at available solutions for premature ejaculation  
  • Understanding the importance of giving and receiving for great sex  
  • Taking a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent 
  • Are there side effects such as numbness when using Promescent? 
  • Boosting your confidence for better sex  
 
 

 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 31, 2020

Welcome to a bonus Halloween episode of the Sexology Podcast! On this episode, I talk about how you can get playful with Halloween themes in the bedroom with my guest, sex therapist and host of Sex Talk with Erika, Erika Miley.

 

Erika Miley is the founder and practice owner of The Center for Mental and Sexual Health. She believes in accessible, confidential, and comfortable therapy. Erika graduated from Whitworth University with a Master’s of Education in Clinical Mental Health. She has worked in public agencies, prisons, and in her own private practice. Erika’s specialty lies in Sexuality, working with monogamous and non-monogamous couples, non-binary genders, as well as people who suffer from anxiety and depression.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

  • The importance of incorporating fun in your sex life during these turbulent times
  • Tapping into different dynamics to surprise your partner
  • Role playing by dressing up in costumes
  • Changing locations for something exciting and new
  • How to work in exhibitionism in a safe and legal way
  • Paint your partner’s body and let them paint yours with edible paint
  • Halloween is the perfect time to introduce your fantasies to your partner
  • Temperature play with candles, oils, and ice
  • Incorporating food into your play
  • Do a sexy scavenger hunt
  • Attend a virtual women-led sex party
  • Use Halloween-themed sex toys

 

 

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Find Erika online:

https://erikamiley.com/

www.sextalkwitherika.com

Instagram @erikamileytherapy

https://www.facebook.com/groups/sextalkprogroup 

Twitter @MrsErikaMiley

 

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http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

Oct 27, 2020

Today on the Sexology Podcast we are celebrating our 200th episode! We’ll be revisiting past episodes that our listeners selected as the ones that helped them the most and provided the best sex advice.  

 

In this episode, you will hear clips from:  

 

Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a clinical-social psychologist, has received numerous awards for her work on sexuality and has written a dozen books on relationships, sexuality and menopause in addition to a number of video tapes and audio tapes.  

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach  

  

Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/12/03/art-and-science-of-seduction-with-dr-alison-ash/  

  

Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/08/20/how-to-last-longer-in-bed/  

 

Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/07/ep158-7-ways-to-upgrade-your-sex-life-according-to-sexperts/  

  

Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle.

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/  

  

Stephen Snyder MD is a sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist who has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/07/28/ep187-the-key-to-great-sex-in-long-term-relationships-with-dr-stephen-snyder/  

  

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You’re the One Who Cheated and Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/11/05/ep149-the-monogamy-paradox-with-dr-tammy-nelson  

  

Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture.

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/28/how-to-overcome-sexual-shyness-with-carol-queen-phd/  

  

Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, examines how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/09/03/sex-relationships-adhd-with-dr-ari-tuckman/  

  

Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra® and the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. 

  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas  

 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 20, 2020

Welcome to episode 199 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Tina speaks with me about overcoming religious shame around sex, taking a look at the historical context of abstinence and learning how to remain within your religion whilst having a healthy sex life.  

 

Dr. Tina is a vibrant thought leader around issues of sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Her life’s work is centered around rooting out the causes of sexual shame and providing tools that disarm and demystify all the negative messages that we receive in American culture and so often in religious circles. She regularly speaks at events, conferences, intimacy retreats, churches, and universities around the country. 

  

Dr. Tina is a sex therapist, former professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Seattle Pacific University, founder of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, AASECT-certified supervisor, mother, wife, and author. She is currently doing work on her next book, which is intended to help parents raise their children free of sexual shame and appropriately teach them about healthy sexuality over each stage of their development. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How Tina became interested in this line of work  
  • Looking back at abstinence only teachings  
  • How couples struggle holding out on sex until after marriage  
  • Understanding the historical context around the issue of sex and religion  
  • Remaining in your religion whilst having a healthy sex life 
  • Learning to appreciate your body 
  • How to begin the process of not being ashamed of wanting to have sex  
 

 

Celebrating 200 episodes 

Email drmoali@sexologypodcast.com with the best sex advice you got from the podcast and we’ll enter you into a raffle to win an Amazon gift voucher! 

 

Find Dr. Tina Online 

https://www.tinaschermersellers.com  

 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 13, 2020

Welcome to episode 198 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Rebecca Gibson to the podcast. In this episode Rebecca speaks with me about sex robots, how people become attracted to them, why they won’t help you with relational skills and what the future holds as technology and AI continue to improve.  

Rebecca Gibson is an adjunct professor at American University and Indiana University South Bend. Her published works include "Desire in the Age of Robots and AI: An Investigation in Science Fiction and Fact" (Palgrave Macmillan 2019) and "The Corseted Skeleton: A Bioarchaeology of Binding" (Palgrave Macmillan 2020).  

She holds a PhD in Anthropology from American University, and when not writing or teaching can be found reading mystery novels amidst a pile of stuffed animals.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  • What are sex robots?  
  • How did Rebecca become interested in this line of work? 
  • Why is there a lack of male sex robots? 
  • Looking at the reasons why people become attracted to sex robots 
  • How the Turning Test is being used to make sex robots more interesting  
  • How sex robots fill a gap for people who can’t get access to sex  
  • The way in which many sex robots reflect their creators 
  • Why sex robots won’t help you with relational skills  
  • What is going to be the future trends of sex robots? 

 

25 Ways to Increase Desire 

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Find Rebecca Online 

https://www.facebook.com/TheCorsetedSkeleton  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Oct 6, 2020

Welcome to episode 197 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Diamond to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Diamond talks to me about how we can best use the daimonic in our lives, analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies and different ways we can engage with our fantasies.  

 

Dr. Stephen Diamond is a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist practicing in Los Angeles, CA. A former pupil and protégé of existential psychoanalyst Rollo May, he is the author of Anger, Madness, and the Daimonic: The Psychological Genesis of Violence, Evil, and Creativity (State University of New York Press, 1996). Dr. Diamond has contributed chapters to the bestselling anthology Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature (1990), Spirituality and Psychological Health (2005), the Encyclopedia of Psychology and Religion (2009), Writing Music (2018), a chapter titled "Existential Therapy: Confronting Life's Ultimate Concerns" to the textbook Contemporary Theory and Practice in Counseling and Psychotherapy (SAGE, 2015), and, most recently, a chapter titled “Existential Explorations of Psychopathy” for a forthcoming forensic psychology text.  

  

His writing has also appeared in various professional journals such as the San Francisco Jung Institute Library Journal, Psychological Perspectives, the Journal of Applied Psychoanalytic Studies, PsycCRITIQUES, Existential Analysis, and Dasein, and he has lectured and taught at diverse institutions including Pacific Graduate School of Psychology (Palo Alto University), J.F.K. University, Argosy University, the C.G. Jung Institute-Zurich, Ryokan College, Loyola Marymount University, and the Existential Academy in London.  

  

Dr. Diamond appears frequently as a guest expert in made-for-television documentaries about high-profile criminal cases. Presently, he authors a long-running blog titled “Evil Deeds” for Psychology Today, serves on the editorial board of JHP, and maintains a private psychotherapy practice. He is a contracted provider of psychotherapy for Kaiser Permanente Medical Group, and is also currently employed as a Consulting Psychologist for a private subacute psychiatric hospital in Sylmar, CA.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Taking a look at the daimonic quality of sex  
  • How aspects of the daimonic can take over or possess us  
  • How can we channel the daimonic for our creativity?  
  • Understanding what our sexual fantasies and desires might mean 
  • Learning to embrace and not shut out your fantasies  
  • Connecting with your erotic self  
  • The difference between thinking about a fantasy and acting one out  
  • Different ways we can engage with our fantasies  
  • Analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies  
  • How using the daimonic can be a source of energy  
 
 

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women 

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Find Dr. Diamond Online 

http://www.drstephendiamond.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 29, 2020

Welcome to episode 196 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Cyndi Darnell to the podcast. In this episode Cyndi talks to me about dating in the time of coronavirus, exploring your sexuality during a pandemic and improving intimacy during this challenging time. 

 

Cyndi Darnell is a NY based, internationally renowned sex & relationships therapist & clinical sexologist. Originally from Australia, her approach spans the clinical to the esoteric. Her academic work is published in the Journal of Sex Education (UK) & Sexual & Relationship Therapy (UK). 

  

She holds a board affiliate position for the University of Wisconsin - Stout Graduate Certificate in Sex Therapy Program. She’s a clinical associate with Pink Therapy UK and faculty on Pink Therapy's Foundation Certificate in Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity Therapy and at New York’s Omega Institute. 

  

Her online courses  and podcast The Erotic Philosopher meet today’s adult sex education needs by bridging the gaps in peoples’ knowledge regarding pleasure, relationships, passion and desire. As a trusted media source, her wisdom has been published in media outlets globally including The Washington Post, O -The Oprah Magazine, New York Magazine, Huffington Post, Bustle, Vice, Cosmo, Sydney Morning Herald, The Guardian and Aussie TV series LukeWarmSex for ABC. She’s spearheading progressive sex & relationships seminars and workshops for adults that deeply change people’s lives. In 2015 she was the only sexologist named on MindBodyGreen’s Top 100 Women to Watch. 

  

She maintains a global consulting practice in NYC and online and offers insight into the quandaries of the erotic to transform fear into freedom. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Should we be dating during a pandemic? 
  • Looking at the different types of dating currently available to us  
  • Recommendations for improving communication skills  
  • Exploring your sexuality during a pandemic 
  • Is it safe to have hook up sex? 
  • Can we pursue longer term relationships through Covid? 
  • How we can improve intimacy during this challenging time 
  • Will our dating lives change forever? 
  • What a new normal might look like for dating  
  • Finding ways to not get overwhelmed by the restrictive nature dating during a pandemic 
  • Using the time we have to reflect on what we really want from our sexuality and relationships  

 

Sex Quiz for Women 

https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz/ 

 

Find Cyndi Online 

http://www.cyndidarnell.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 22, 2020

Welcome to episode 195 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Erika Ettin to the podcast. In this episode Erika talks to me about online dating, the best practices you can use to meet people online and things to consider for yourself and the person you’re engaging with when dating online.  

 

Erika Ettin is the Founder of A Little Nudge, a consulting company that helps people navigate the world of online dating, from first click to first date. She is also the author of the book Love at First Site and the co-host of the popular dating podcast So, We Met Online… 

  

Erika studied economics at Cornell University and received her MBA from Georgetown. She started A Little Nudge in 2011 (after a seven-year career as an economist). She is responsible for many relationships, marriages, and the confidence some people simply need to “get out there.” 

  

A Little Nudge has been featured in media around the country, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, NPR, Good Day Philadelphia, CBS, and Ask Men, and she currently writes a weekly syndicated dating column.   

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How well does online dating work? 
  • Does online dating work better dependent on your sexuality?  
  • Looking at the issue of perceived flaws  
  • Understanding that you need to need cast a wide net to get a good amount of quality responses 
  • The common mistakes people make when dating online 
  • The importance of being authentic and truthful when representing yourself 
  • Be positive about yourself but don’t over-do it 
  • Seeking out niche sites for those into Kink, BDSM etc  
  • Being honest about your intentions whether it’s a one-night stand or long-term relationship 
 
 

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday in September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women 

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

 

Find Erika Online 

https://www.alittlenudge.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 15, 2020

Welcome to episode 194 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer your questions about ways in which you can improve your sex life. We’ll look at issues such as sexual trauma re-enactment, improving your sex life after the honeymoon period and the importance of intimacy after sex.  

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Why we engage in trauma re-enactment and ways to overcome those behaviors 
  • Learning to confront what happened in the past 
  • The importance of body work that can be healing  
  • How power play and BDSM can help overcome trauma 
  • Looking at the dynamics of bisexuality  
  • Understanding when the right time is to start taking medication 
  • Improving your sex life after the “Honeymoon Period”  
  • The importance of communicating effectively and directly with your partner about what you want sexually  
  • How masturbation can affect our sleep cycles  
  • Using masturbation as a crutch to get better sleep 
  • The importance of intimacy after sex  
  • Looking at cultural differences in sex

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday in September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 8, 2020

Welcome to episode 193 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Ariel Watriss to the podcast. In this episode, Ariel speaks to me about how she became involved working around the STIs, misconceptions people still have about STIs and analyzing the risks around sex.  

 

Ariel Watriss (she/hers) is a nurse practitioner currently working in college health at Tufts University Health Services. She started there in 2013 and in June 2018 was promoted to be the Sexual health specialist for the clinic.  

  

She received her bachelor’s and master’s degrees in nursing from the MGH Institute of Health Professions School of Nursing in 2011. Prior to her time at Tufts, she worked at the Fenway Community Health Center in their research department, the Fenway Institute. She was the primary clinician providing care to study participants and performed medical procedures in multiple HIV prevention biomedical studies, including HIV PrEP studies.  

  

Before attending nursing school, she ran the HIV counseling, testing and family planning programs at the Sidney Borum Jr Health Center (a health center for disenfranchised and LGBTQ youth). She was the recipient of the American College Health Association (ACHA) 2015 Affiliate New Professionals Award for the New England area.  

  

Her professional passions include LGBTQIA health, sexual health, and helping young adults navigate their own health advocacy. She has presented talks at national and regional conferences on HIV PrEP/PEP/sexual health, and has served as a panelist on CDC HIV prevention education programs. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How did Ariel get into this work? 
  • Misconceptions around STIs  
  • Looking at the issue of shame and best ways to counteract it  
  • Analyzing the risks around sex 
  • The basic information that people need to be well informed  
  • Looking at the hierarchy of concerns around STIs  
  • How there is a lot of confusion and stigma around herpes  
  • Looking at the treatments available for STIs in 2020  
  • Why an STI diagnosis is not a death sentence or the end of your sex life 
  • Learning when to best communicate you have an STI to a partner of prospective partner  
  • Navigating hook up culture with STIs  
 
 

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday in September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Ariel Watriss here:  

https://twitter.com/watrissa  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Sep 1, 2020

Welcome to episode 192 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome back Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir and I talk about medical treatments for sexual dysfunctions, looking at the issues that cause sex to be painful and learning to change your lifestyle to improve your sex life.  

  

Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”. 

  

Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Is there a medical treatment for those who find sex painful?  
  • Looking at the issues that cause sex to be painful  
  • How menopause can affect sex and sexuality  
  • Looking at medical prescriptions and if they can help  
  • Analyzing the effectiveness of Viagra and other medicines for erectile dysfunction   
  • Understanding that Viagra won’t help with the root cause of the issue 
  • How a healthy lifestyle can drastically improve erections  
  • Adapting your sexual life around hormonal changes  
  • How chronic iron deficiency can affect sexual desire  
  • Learning to change your lifestyle to improve your sex life  

 

Head to Nazanin’s Instagram from Friday 4th September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido! 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Amir here:  

EP175 with Amir Mohebbi

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

 

Aug 25, 2020

Welcome to episode 191 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Kelli Palfy to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Palfy talks to me about male sexual abuse, the stigma around this issue and understanding that recovery is possible.  

 

Dr. Palfy has a unique background in working with victims of sexual abuse.  She obtained her Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Alberta in 2016. When conducting her doctoral research, she examined the reasons why males do not commonly disclose sexual abuse. She was well-prepared to research this topic from the experience she gained in her prior profession in law enforcement. From 1995 - 2011 when she was a respected member of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. During this, her prior career she focused on sex crimes investigations and specialized in the global sexual victimization of children where she gained experience in identifying the sophisticated grooming tactics used by perpetrators.   

  

Dr. Palfy brings the many facets of her unique combination of professional experience and perspective to her practice. She is now a trained trauma therapist and public speaker. As a private practitioner, she works with male survivors of sexual abuse, as well as first responders and couples. She is trained in the use of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Outside of her professional life she is an avid outdoor adventurer, enjoying hiking, cycling, swimming, kayaking, and paddle boarding. She treasures her time with good friends and her pets. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How did Dr Palfy become interested in this work?  
  • The stigma that men face around this issue  
  • The misconceptions men encounter around this topic  
  • Looking at how the abusers can often be someone we know 
  • Understanding that physical pleasure doesn’t mean consent  
  • Looking at the sexual orientation piece of survivors 
  • The dysfunctional ways survivors are coping after trauma  
  • Sexual dysfunctions that can manifest in survivors  
  • How to communicate being a survivor to your partner  
  • Understanding that recovery is possible  
  • Learning to commit to trauma treatment and the benefits it has  
 
 

 

What Kind of Lover Are You? 

 

Find Dr. Palfy online: 

http://kellipalfy.com/ 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Aug 18, 2020

Welcome to episode 190 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Tim Norton to the podcast. In this episode Tim speaks with me about erectile dysfunction, ways in which you can begin to tackle this issue, connecting with how sex feels rather than how we perceive it to be and myth busting the idea that bigger is always better when it comes to penis size.  

 

Tim Norton is a Los Angeles-based sex therapist working in private practice, and host of a podcast on erectile issues and male sexuality - Hard Conversations. He obtained his bachelor’s and master’s degrees from the University of Southern California.  

 

Tim is a proud member of American Association of Sex Counselors, Educators, and Therapists (AASECT), the Los Angeles Sexological Association, and works part-time with the Pain Psychology Center in Beverly Hills.     

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Distinguishing between erectile dysfunction and dissatisfaction  
  • The psychological barriers that can get in the way of a good erection 
  • Ways in which you can start to tackle and overcome this issue  
  • Connecting with how sex feels rather than how we perceive it to be 
  • How our busy lives can get in the way of good erections  
  • Learning how to get in a better mental space for better erections  
  • Looking at penis size – does it matter?  
  • Ways you can teach yourself to last longer in bed 
  • Tackling self-esteem issues that could be getting in the way  

 

What Kind Of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find Tim Norton online: 

https://www.timnortontherapy.com 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Aug 11, 2020

Welcome to episode 189 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome GS Youngblood, to the podcast. In this episode GS Youngblood talks to me about leading from your masculine core, the importance of sexual leadership and understanding the masculine blueprint.  

 

GS Youngblood coaches men in relationships on how to live, love, and lead from their Masculine core. He specializes in “nice guys” who are with strong women. His teachings combine deep embodiment work with the framework of the Masculine blueprint from his book “The Masculine in Relationship”. Learn more at gsyoungblood.com. 

  

His writings are filtered through the laboratory of his and his clients’ real-world, long term relationships (including the successes and spectacular failures) to see what actually works and what doesn’t. Through this lens of Masculine leadership, he also pulls in principles from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM. 

  

Reception to the book has been phenomenal. Both from men (“You just described my married life to perfection…” and “This is the best book I’ve EVER read on masculinity in a relationship”) and women (“I just picked up your book off my coffee table that my husband bought and it’s like you’ve been listening to me talk for the last few years! Insane how much you get it.”) 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How GS became interested in this area of work 
  • Looking at masculinity core  
  • How men can learn to be within their own power  
  • Defining masculine energy  
  • The importance of sexual leadership 
  • Understanding women can be disinterested in only certain types of sex  
  • Learning how to properly communicate these issues to your partner  
  • Understanding if this is your issue or your partners or both  
  • Looking at the masculine blueprint  
 
 

 

Better Help 

Thank you to our sponsor Better Help. Every day, thousands of people seek the help of a licensed therapist. If you are a psychologist, marriage & family therapist, clinical social worker or board licensed professional counselor, BetterHelp is the easiest way to apply your clinical expertise online. https://betterhelp.com/sexology 

 

What Kind Of Lover Are You? 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover 

 

Find GS Youngblood online: 

https://www.gsyoungblood.com/ 

 

Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Aug 4, 2020

Welcome to episode 188 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lanae St. John, to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Lanae speaks with me about how to have better conversations with our kids around sex, empowering them with the tools and knowledge they will need and how parents can better understand sexual orientation and gender identity.  

 

Dr. Lanae St John, known as The MamaSutra, is a board-certified sexologist, certified sex coach, and sexuality educator. She is author of “Read Me: A Parental Primer for “The Talk”. Lanae lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her significant other and two daughters. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The hurdles we face talking to our kids about sex  
  • Being aware and noticing the issues around you  
  • How a shame spiral can easily develop  
  • The importance of talking to your partner about sex  
  • Taking a genital self-exam  
  • Overcoming issues of using sexual language with kids  
  • How Dr. Lanae turned the narrative around 
  • Looking at incorporating fantasy  
  • Teaching kids that pleasure from sex is okay
  • Empowering our kids with the knowledge and tools they’ll need 
  • Learning to have a constructive conversation around STI’s  
  • How parents can better understand sexual orientation and gender identity  
 
 

 

Better Help 

Thank you to our sponsor Better Help. Every day, thousands of people seek the help of a licensed therapist. If you are a psychologist, marriage & family therapist, clinical social worker or board licensed professional counselor, BetterHelp is the easiest way to apply your clinical expertise online. https://betterhelp.com/sexology 

 

Checklist for Parents 

 

Find Dr. Lanae online: 

 

Free Chapter: Read Me: A Parental Primer for "The Talk"

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jul 28, 2020

Welcome to episode 187 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Stephen Snyder to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Snyder talks to me about having better sex in long term monogamous relationships, creating better psychological arousal and recommendations to improve your sex life.  

 

Stephen Snyder MD — sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist — has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. Over 30+ years, he’s helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction in their relationships. 

  

Dr. Snyder is Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City and the author of one of the most acclaimed sex and relationship books of our time, LOVE WORTH MAKING: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship (St Martin’s Press, 2018).    

  

As an MD sex therapist, Dr. Snyder has a unique combination of skills that enables him to handle the most complex, difficult situations. He received his medical degree from the University of California, San Francisco (M.D. 1983), trained in internal medicine at Mt Zion Medical Center in San Francisco (1983-84), then in psychiatry at the Payne Whitney Clinic, New York Hospital / Cornell University Medical Center (1984-87) and as a Fellow in Behavioral Medicine at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in NYC (1987-89).  

  

Dr. Snyder was Director of the Psychiatric Consultation Service at Mount Sinai Medical Center from 1990-2000. Since 2000, he has been in full-time private practice in Manhattan, specializing in sex and relationship concerns. 

  

Dr. Snyder is an active member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR); has been a presenter, workshop leader, and discussant at the Society’s national meetings; and has served on its Professional Book Award Committee and as Chairman of its Consumer Book Award committee. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • What are the barriers experience people in monogamous relationships face?  
  • How do you define good sex?  
  • Looking at psychological arousal  
  • How passion is erotic selfishness  
  • Creating psychological space for arousal  
  • The role that fantasy plays in this issue  
  • Why women lose interest in sex in long term relationships  
  • Recommendations to improve your sex life in a long-term relationship  
  • The fear men hold about disappointing their partners  
  • Looking at the issue of erectile dysfunction   
 
 

 

Better Help 

Thank you to our sponsor Better Help. Every day, thousands of people seek the help of a licensed therapist. If you are a psychologist, marriage & family therapist, clinical social worker or board licensed professional counselor, BetterHelp is the easiest way to apply your clinical expertise online. https://betterhelp.com/sexology 

 

Sex Quiz for Women 

https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz/ 

 

Find Dr. Snyder online: 

https://www.sexualityresource.com/ 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jul 21, 2020

Welcome to episode 186 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lyndsey Harper to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Harper talks to me about how to increase your sexual desire at any stage in life, evidence-based ways to increase your libido and we take a look at her wonderful app – Rosy.  

 

Lyndsey Harper, MD is the Founder and CEO of Rosy, an app for women with decreased sexual desire. Dr. Harper created Rosy out of frustration when she couldn’t find a modern and accessible resource to help her many patients with this problem. Rosy is a resource to connect the 25 million women in the US with decreased sexual desire with hope, community, and research-backed solutions to improve their lives.  

 

Dr. Harper completed Ob/Gyn residency in 2011 at Baylor Scott & White Health in Dallas, Texas, and Dr. Harper saw patients in private practice for seven years and now is a hospitalist. Dr. Harper is Associate Professor of Ob/Gyn for Texas A&M College of Medicine, a Fellow of The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and a Fellow of the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Does menopause effect your sex life? 
  • Looking at the feeling of having your desire stolen from you 
  • Are hormonal treatments effective?  
  • How sex can be become a physically painful experience  
  • They key ingredients for people having a fulfilled sexual life 
  • The importance of communication  
  • How you can advocate for yourself  
  • Learning to be brief and direct  
  • Evidence based ways to increase your libido  
  • Looking at Dr. Harper’s fantastic app – Rosy  
 

 

Better Help 

Thank you to our sponsor, Better Help.

If you are a psychologist, marriage & family therapist, clinical social worker or board licensed professional counselor, BetterHelp is the easiest way to apply your clinical expertise online.

Visit https://betterhelp.com/sexology and complete a brief application to get started.

 

Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women: 

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

 

Find Dr. Harper online: 

https://meetrosy.com/ 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jul 14, 2020

Welcome to episode 185 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Peyman Raoofi to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Raoofi speaks with me about the Madonna and whore complex, its complexities for relationships, how we can learn to adjust our own behaviors and learning to see your partner in a different light.  

 

Dr. Peyman Raoofi, licensed clinical psychologist in California, holds a Doctorate and Master's degree in Clinical Psychology from Alliant International University and a Bachelor's degree in psychology from California State University, Northridge with Summa Cum Laude Honors. 

  

He is currently working in his own private practice with individuals, couples and families. In addition Dr. Raoofi is contracted with multiple Long Term Care Facilities and Nursing Homes as consultant psychologist. 

  

He has many years of experience working with children on the spectrum of Autism/Asperger, and Mental Retardation. Throughout his trainings for intense psychosocial interventions he has been trained for ABA methodologies and DTT program in treating children with challenging behaviors. He has trainings from Johns Hopkins University and Yale University on science of well-being and health psychology. In addition Dr. Raoofi has worked as a social worker with geriatric population at an Adult Day Health Care Center. 

  

UNICEF, Relief International and Human Rights Council are other organizations that Dr. Raoofi has been actively involved to help disadvantaged children on a global level. He is a lifetime member of the Psi Chi National Honor Society in Psychology, Golden Key International Honor Society, recipient of Gold honor of the US President’s Volunteer Service Award from President George W. Bush and President Obama's Call to Service Award. He also has been recognized as an Honorary Ambassador by UNICEF and recognized as a Mental Health Hero by Chicago School of Psychology.  

  

Dr. Raoofi is currently serving on the Boards of Iranian Psychological Association of America (IPAA), Los Angeles County Psychological Association (LACPA) and Profamily Group. 

  

Dr. Raoofi is an International speaker and has been a guest speaker in many universities including MIT, UCLA, Cal State Los Angeles, Chicago School of Psychology, California School of Psychology, Pepperdine University and Sharif University. He has been a guest on multiple TV and Radio shows such as Voice of America, BBC, Spectrum News, Radio Hamrah, and KIRN 670AM. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • What is the Madonna and whore complex? 
  • How cultures can affect this issue  
  • The way in which more male dominated cultures are more affected  
  • Overcoming seeing your partner as a sexual being as well as mother, carer etc  
  • Can this complex be cured?  
  • Understanding the importance of not solely focusing on one role, E.G Being a father  
  • Knowing it’s okay to indulge in sexual exchange and selfishness with your partner 
  • Paying attention to your own patterns and learning to adjust  
  • Learning to see your partner in a different light  
 
 

 

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

 

Find Dr. Peyman Raoofi online: 

http://www.raoofi.com  

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio 

Jul 7, 2020

Welcome to episode 184 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to welcome Janis Roszler & Donna Rice to the podcast. In this episode they speak with me about their new book Intimacy & Diabetes, the common challenges people face around sexuality and diabetes, removing shame from diabetes and navigating your sense of fun and spontaneity with a chronic illness. 

 

Romantic relationships play an important role in our everyday lives. But when diabetes enters the picture, it can complicate even the most loving and open relationships. Many people don’t know that diabetes can impact physical and emotional intimacy—and intimacy-related issues can be especially difficult to discuss with a partner or a doctor. But don’t let diabetes hinder the romance! Intimacy & Diabetes is here to give you practical information and expert advice to tackle this sensitive subject. This comprehensive, interactive guide covers everything you need to know to enjoy a fulfilling sexual and emotional life despite the challenges of diabetes. Inside you’ll find: 

  

The common physical and emotional sexual complications of diabetes and treatment options for men and women An overview of diabetes nutrition, physical activity, weight loss, and diabetes medications Information on how aging impacts diabetes management and intimacy Guidance on how to talk to your doctor about intimacy-related issues Ideas and techniques for building sexual intimacy and communicating effectively with your partner Tips to help you avoid dangerous or money-wasting fraudulent sexual treatments A collection of delicious, diabetes-friendly recipes to help spice up your love life.  

  

Authors Janis Roszler and Donna Rice use humor, helpful examples, and insightful questions to present key topics about sexual health in an engaging, approachable way. This book is perfect for anyone (regardless of gender, sexual orientation, age, or health status) looking to rekindle intimacy with their partner or be proactive about their sexual and emotional wellbeing. Intimacy & Diabetes is your key to a happy, healthy intimate life with diabetes. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How did Janis & Donna become interested in this topic? 
  • Understanding the need for providers to bring up the conversation to clients  
  • The common challenges people face around sexuality and diabetes  
  • How many aspects of diabetes are based on genetics and not behavioral issues  
  • Removing shame from diabetes  
  • Dealing with blame around chronic illnesses  
  • The challenges people face getting into a new relationship with diabetes  
  • Navigating your sense of fun and spontaneity with diabetes  
  • Looking at medications and their effectiveness  
 
 

Download my new ebook for free here:

 

Find Intimacy & Diabetes online: 

https://www.amazon.com/Intimacy-Diabetes-Janis-Roszler-ebook/dp/B084DPG4T7 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jun 30, 2020

Welcome to episode 183 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Miss Couple to the podcast. In this episode Miss Couple speaks to me about wax play, incorporating wax play into your sexual make-up and maintaining your connectivity to sexuality. 

 

Described by Playboy as “equal parts Betty Grable and ‘90s Ani DiFranco,” Miss Couple is a Sexual Empowerment Coach known for class, professionalism, and a forward-thinking mindset. 

  

Miss Couple has been interviewed as an authority in the field by Cosmopolitan, VICE, People Magazine, The Daily Beast, Huffington Post, and numerous other media outlets. 

  

She is best known for her psychological perspective on intimacy and her ability to make others feel comfortable discussing difficult topics. Miss Couple comes to the field of coaching with a diverse background and draws from the skill-sets that she has accumulated through her education in psychology, time as an award-winning ballroom dancing instructor, and experience as a world-renowned BDSM expert, to provide a well-rounded perspective. 

  

Miss Couple is devoted to normalizing modalities of connection that have been obscured, ridiculed, or simply misunderstood. She caters to a variety of clients, from individuals looking to explore their sexuality or relationship with power, newlyweds looking to build a strong foundation, empty nesters looking to spice things up, couples who are navigating non-monogamy, and more. Through virtual coaching, she provides space to build trust so that clients feel comfortable sharing and receiving feedback. Her biggest goal is to help empower people to create relationships, and ultimately lives, they crave. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How can people build confidence to have conversations around kink?  
  • Understanding that whilst stimulating, porn is a production and not a reflection of reality  
  • What is wax play?  
  • Incorporating wax play into your sexual make-up  
  • Learning how to do wax play safely  
  • Exploring the power play dynamics around wax play  
  • Using wax play for a greater sense of pleasure in a relationship  
  • Maintaining your connectivity to sexuality  
  • Ways you can prepare as a couple for successful wax play and other sexual experiences  
 
 

 

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

 

Find Miss Couple online: 

 

Find Dr. Moali online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jun 23, 2020

Welcome to episode 182 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Rhoda speaks with me about open relationships, recommendations on how you can start your journey into an open relationship and maintaining sexual safety.  

 

Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb has been counseling and coaching individuals and couples in the area of human sexuality for over 28 years and in private practice for over 14 years specializing in open relationship styles (polyamory, swinging, designer relationships), BDSM, ABDL, kink and fetishes. She received her PhD in clinical sexology, is an AASECT certified sex therapist, clinical sexologist, and sexuality coach specializing in areas of alternative sexuality.  

  

She published her first book in 2017 called, No More Hiding: Permission to love your sexual self. It is an innovative guide for those seeking help on how to be their authentic sexual self. 

  

In 2019 she launched a training/coaching program called Monogamy to Open to provide those transitioning from monogamy to the many types of open relationships a path that will provide the knowledge and guidance necessary to be successful. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The similarities and differences of open relationships? 
  • Looking at some of the tough expectations of monogamy  
  • What personality types opt for open relationships? 
  • The pros and cons of open relationships 
  • The differences between polyamory and swinging  
  • How there is still a lot of social stigma around open relationships  
  • Recommendations if you’re interested to start swinging 
  • Understanding you can go at your own pace 
  • How many people stay in swinging for the community  
  • Recommendations for sexual safety through this journey  
 
 

 

Find Dr. Rhoda online 

Private FB page for open relationships: Monogamy 2 Open 

Calendly page for complementary 30-minute consult: Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb 

  

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

 

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe  

 

Take the Sex Quiz for Women here:

https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz/

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio 

Jun 16, 2020

Welcome to episode 181 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Tristan Taormino to the podcast. In this episode Tristan speaks with me about anal pleasure, how we can start our journeys into the world of anal play, recommendations on sex toys and understanding to not put pressure on yourself as you start this journey.  

  

Tristan Taormino is a sex educator, media maker, and speaker. She is the author of eight books and editor of 25 anthologies including the award-winning The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and The Ultimate Guide to Kink. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world on sexual pleasure and health, relationships, and social justice. She is the host of the long-running podcast Sex Out Loud. She is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program, and she runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How can you introduce anal pleasure into your sexual life?  
  • Exploring anal sex as a couple  
  • The myths and misconceptions around anal sex  
  • How anal sex can be more intense than vaginal sex  
  • What does anal play involve? 
  • Recommendations for the best anal sex toys to use  
  • How to make anal sex non-painful  
  • Understanding to not compare yourself to porn stars  
  • Learning the best practices for anal  
  • How to start your journey into the world of anal  
  • The best ways to communicate you’re interested in anal sex to your partner 
  • The importance to take your time and not put pressure on yourself  
 
 

 

Find Tristan online 

http://sexoutloudradio.com  

The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women 

  

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

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https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

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If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

  

Celebrating One Million Downloads 

To celebrate hitting one million downloads I am giving away a bottle of Uberlube to anyone who writes a review on iTunes. Simply take a screenshot of your review and email to me or send as a DM to my Instagram page. Thank you for helping Sexology Podcast hit one million downloads! 

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jun 9, 2020

Welcome to episode 180 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am pleased to welcome Dr. Sunny Motamedi to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Motamedi talks to me about how religion affects people’s sexuality, the connection between shame and religion and steps you can take to heal sexual shame.  

  

Dr. Motamedi is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and has been blessed to be conducting therapy for 20 years. She has a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology and additional training in Marriage and Family Therapy. Throughout her training she has received training in a vast array of areas within psychology including trauma therapy, couples therapy, sex therapy and mindfulness.  

  

Growing up in Iran, Dr. Motamedi has had a lifelong interest on the effects of culture and religion on sexuality.  She developed her unique method of body work that she uses on her clients, known as the Sunny Healing Method, a bottom-up approach.  She uses the body to release trauma from the tissue and different parts of the body through chakra opening, visualizations and affirmations. 

  

Dr. Motamedi is actively practicing in California helping both couples and trauma survivors. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How does religion affect people's sexuality? 
  • The way in which religion can separate body and spirit 
  • Looking at the connection between shame and religion  
  • Seeking support and navigating through these issues  
  • Steps you can take to heal sexual shame  
  • Changes you’ll need to make in your life to make progress 
  • How we can regulate our bodies  
  • How a relationship can play a role in the healing process 
  • Creating a safe space as a couple  
  • Understanding the nature and beauty of truly seeing another person's soul  
  • Determining what’s a good affirmation through this process  
 
 

 

Find Dr. Motamedi online 

https://www.sunnyhealingtherapy.com 

https://www.instagram.com/drsunnymotamedi 

  

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

Download my new ebook for free here:   

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe  

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

  

Celebrating One Million Downloads 

To celebrate hitting one million downloads I am giving away a bottle of Uberlube to anyone who writes a review on iTunes. Simply take a screenshot of your review and email to me or send as a DM to my Instagram page. Thank you for helping Sexology Podcast hit one million downloads! 

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

Jun 1, 2020

Welcome to episode 179 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Miklos Hargitay to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Hargitay speaks to me about the issues of when your partner is sexually assaulted, how couples can work through this together and understanding the importance of communication.  

  

Dr. Miklos Hargitay earned his PsyD from William James College in Clinical Psychology and his BA from the University of California -Santa Barbara in Anthropology. Dr. Hargitay has specialized training in trauma-informed therapy with survivors of sexual violence.  

 

He has diverse clinical experience, including work in crisis centers, college counselling, and medical settings. Dr. Hargitay is committed to helping adults talk through difficult emotions and topics with compassion and care, such as anxiety and depression, trauma, relationships, and sex. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The common sexual symptoms survivors may experience  
  • Why sexual desire may increase after an assault  
  • Questions the partner might have if their partner is a victim of abuse  
  • How couples can work through this together  
  • Looking at sensate focus  
  • Looking out for triggers and how to overcome them  
  • Learning to deal with sexual frustration if your partner isn’t comfortable to have sex yet 
  • The importance of the fidelity agreement  
  • Learning how to best communicate with your partner about these issues 
 

 

Find Dr. Hargitay online 

https://www.mtcollective.org/ 

Transformative Power of Sensate Focus 

 

Celebrating One Million Downloads

To celebrate hitting one million downloads I am giving away a bottle of Uberlube to anyone who writes a review on iTunes. Simply take a screenshot of your review and email to me or send as a DM to my Instagram page. Thank you for helping Sexology Podcast hit one million downloads! 

  

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

Download my new ebook for free here:   

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

  

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

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