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Sexology podcast untangles the science of sex and pleasure. Each week, Dr. Nazanin Moali interviews experts, psychologists and researchers to explore the most intriguing findings in psychology of sex and intimacy. Sexology podcast will give you insight into all that you have ever wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask. Join us in this weekly journey to examine sexuality and pleasure from a scientific perspective.
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May 2, 2017

Welcome to episode 17 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Lisa Firestone. In this episode, Dr. Firestone talks about the definition of a “Fantasy Bond”, childhood experiences that can affect your sexuality and the need for self-compassion around these issues. 

Dr. Lisa Firestone is the Director of Research and Education at The Glendon Association. An accomplished and much requested lecturer, Dr. Firestone speaks at national and international conferences in the areas of couple relations, parenting, and suicide and violence prevention. Dr. Firestone has published numerous professional articles, and most recently was the co-author of Sex and Love in Intimate Relationships (APA Books, 2006), Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice (New Harbinger, 2002), Creating a Life of Meaning and Compassion: The Wisdom of Psychotherapy (APA Books, 2003) and The Self Under Siege (Routledge, 2012).

In this episode, you will hear:  

  • The definition of a “Fantasy Bond”
  • How common it is for people to experience the Fantasy Bond
  • Repeating destructive behaviours throughout different relationships
  • Being able to experience healthy sexuality without acting out from your past
  • Childhood experiences that can affect your sexuality
  • Identifying if you’re reacting in a fantasy bond as opposed to reacting authentically
  • The need for some people to have certain fantasies to be aroused
  • The importance of being vulnerable with your partner in a relationship
  • Overcoming the shame that not being vulnerable can create
  • Why both partners in a relationship need to be authentic with each other
  • Voice Therapy – How it works and its similarities to Narrative Therapy
  • The need for self-compassion and not be too self-critical 

Resources

https://www.psychalive.org

https://www.sexologypodcast.com

lfirestone@glendon.org

http://drlisafirestone.com

Apr 25, 2017

Welcome to episode 16 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is the creator of Talk Sex with Me, Tara Spears, LMFT, LMHC. In this episode, Tara talks about ways in which parents can support their children through the journey of sexual discovery, how to navigate the situation of your children discovering pornography and clarifying and communicating your own sexual values to your child.

Talk Sex with Me was created by Tara Spears. Ms. Spears graduated with a Master’s Degree in Counselor Education from the University of Central Florida in 2005. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist. She has over ten years of experience working with individuals, children, families and couples encountering a variety of hardships in life. After spending, most of her career responding reactively to situations or intervening after a crisis (i.e. a child’s removal from the home, failed adoption, and the aftermath of abuse), Ms. Spears decided to take a more proactive approach.

In this episode, you will hear:

  • How Tara became involved in this line of work
  • The appropriate age for parents to start talking about sex with their children
  • Why parents shouldn’t over-react if they find their children masturbating
  • Ways in which parents can support their children through the journey of sexual discovery
  • Clarifying your own sexual values
  • Communicating those values to your child
  • Knowing the distinction between sexual education and “putting sexual ideas” into your child’s mind
  • How to navigate the situation of your children discovering pornography
  • Making sure pornography doesn’t set their expectation for sex
  • Communicating to younger children if they walk in on their parents having sex
  • The best ways to react if your child becomes pregnant or impregnates someone else
  • Negative connotations in school sex education and how to navigate around this issue

For more great content please check out www.sexologypodcast.com

 

Resources

https://talksexwithme.com

talksexwme@gmail.com

Apr 18, 2017

Welcome to episode 15 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is sociologist and sexologist Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus. In this episode, you will hear Dr. Gunsaullus talk about the normality of masturbation and how often people engage in it, positive effects from masturbation and ways in which parents can positively communicate with their children about masturbation.

Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus, sociologist and sexologist, is a frequent speaker about sexual empowerment, healthy relationships, body image, erotic play, sexual consent, sexual health, and mindfulness. She has presented two TEDx Talks, is a writer on sex and relationships, and a recurring intimacy expert on the San Diego morning news. Her In the Den with Dr. Jenn educational video series has over 1.3 million hits on YouTube and she is an expert in the new documentary on masturbation, called Sticky: A (Self) Love Story. In addition, as a martial arts practitioner, she was recently promoted to black belt in Korean karate -- so watch out for this badass doctor!

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • The normality of masturbation and how often people do it
  • How it’s normal for children to discover masturbation
  • General concerns people have, is it harmful?
  • How cultural and religious beliefs have negatively impacted people’s views on masturbation
  • Misinformation – No, you can’t go blind from masturbation
  • Positive effects from masturbation, mentally and physically
  • Overcoming shame and embarrassment with meditative masturbation
  • Masturbating in a relationship, does it hurt the relationship?
  • Having open communication with your partner on this issue
  • The psychological effects using toys and vibrators can have
  • Ways in which parents can positively communicate with their children about masturbation
  • How many of our currently held cultural views of masturbation were created in the 19th and 20th century

For more great content check out www.sexologypodcast.com 

Resources

http://www.drjennsden.com

http://www.drjennsden.com/meditative-masturbation

Apr 11, 2017

Sexology Podcast EP14 - Sexual Empowerment with Dr. Patti Britton

 

Welcome to episode 14 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Clinical Sexologist and Sexuality Educator, Dr. Patti Britton. In this episode, Dr. Britton talks about what sexual empowerment entails, how shaming yourself is one of the biggest blocks to sexual pleasure and becoming more authentic and cultivating erotic authenticity.

 

With over 35 years of experience and pedigreed credentials as a Clinical Sexologist and Sexuality Educator, Dr. Patti Britton has built a reputation as a pioneer of sex coaching. Her methodologies for helping individuals and couples achieve their desired sexual potential are well known among professionals in her industry. As co-founder of SexCoachU, she has trained hundreds of sex coaches throughout the world, spreading her groundbreaking approach to sexual healing. Dr. Patti’s work has been featured on national TV programs, such as The Montel Show, Hard Copy, CNBC, and CBS News. She raised the bar in her field when she published the first book on Sex Coaching, entitled ‘The Art of Sex Coaching: Expanding Your Practice’.

 

While her methods and unique approach have developed into training other sex coaches, Dr. Patti’s true passion lies in working with individuals and couples to achieve their sexual goals. Whether it’s a desire to heal sexual dysfunction, overcome shame, or deepen an intimate connection, Dr. Patti is at right at home with finding the solution.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • What sexual empowerment usually entails
  • Sexual actualisation and realisation and the right to feel pleasure
  • Some of the factors that lead to people losing their sexual power and desire
  • How shaming yourself is one of the biggest blocks to sexual pleasure
  • Ways in which to refresh your sex life
  • Clarifying your views around sexuality
  • SAR – Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring
  • Allowing yourself to enjoy sexual pleasure and masturbation
  • Navigating your value system with your sexual desires
  • Becoming more authentic and cultivating erotic authenticity
  • How things have changed since the release of Fifty Shades of Grey

 

Resources

http://drpattibritton.com

http://drpattibritton.com/free-gift-for-her-pleasure/

 

For more great content please check out www.sexologyposcast.com

Apr 4, 2017

Welcome to episode 13 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is sex and relationship coach; Pam Costa. In this episode, Pam talks about how she began her journey into educating people about sexuality, the ways in which shame can shape our sexuality and how you can build shame resiliency.

After a decade and a half at Apple and Facebook, Pam left her career in high tech to found Down To There to share her real-life stories of challenges and successes around sexuality in her marriage. She hopes that her journey from struggling with sexual desire to a now rich and rewarding sex life can provide an example of how normal issues with desire can be, and how these issues can provide unexpected pathways for increased intimacy and connection.

As a Somatica® sex and relationship coach, she enjoys working with individuals and couples of all configurations to explore what is possible emotionally and erotically in their relationships. She is currently accepting and seeing clients over Skype and in-person in her office in Cupertino, CA. She also provides content and guidance for Down To There Circles: free, peer-led discussion groups, where friends can support and inspire each other around sex and relationships.

Her ongoing studies include training with San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI), American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT), JFK University's holistic counseling program and the Somatica® Institute.

Her writing has been featured on Huffington Post, Mindful and Psyched and she has also spoken at the Wisdom 2.0 and Inman conferences.

In this episode, you will hear:

  • How Pam began her journey into educating people about sexuality
  • The ways in which shame can shape our sexuality
  • Body shaming; and how it can affect sex
  • The difficulties in communicating what you want sexually, leading to vulnerability
  • How poor sex education can lead to shaming
  • Not having enough information on sex from our parents
  • The affects religion can have on sex and correct information around sex
  • Mixed messages that children can pick up from their parents about sex
  • Identifying your own shame and figuring out where it came from
  • Being scared to share your shame with your partner
  • Building shame resiliency
  • How shame can affect other things outside of sex; eating disorders, addictions etc.
  • Communicating with your close friends about shame

 

Resources

https://www.downtothere.com

For more great content please check out www.sexologypodcast.com

Mar 28, 2017

Welcome to episode 12 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m speaking to Natalie Finegood Goldberg, LMFT, CST about the issues surrounding erectile dysfunction. In this episode, Natalie talks about the causes of erectile dysfunction, its physiological and psychological factors contributing to this struggles and steps that can be taken to overcome this issue.

Natalie Finegood Goldberg is an AASECT Certified Los Angeles Sex Therapist and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFC #53017) specializing in sex therapy and psychotherapy. Working with individuals and couples, Natalie offers therapy services at her private practice in Beverly Hills. Previous work experience includes being a staff clinical associate at Center for Healthy Sex in West Los Angeles, as well as having previously worked at Cliffside Malibu, a dual diagnosis inpatient drug and alcohol rehab. Natalie was born and raised in Los Angeles and is familiar with the variety of pressures that come with living in LA. 

In addition to her degrees, Natalie has participated in a variety of trainings including a Clinical Sexology training with Dr. Patti Britton, Bridging the Couple Chasm: A Research Based Approach by Drs John and Julie Gottman, and the Sex Addiction Treatment Training Program with Alexandra Katehakis, MFT, CSAT-S, CST-S. Natalie completed the rigorous requirements to become a sex therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) under the supervision of Alexandra Katehakis, MFT, CSAT-S, CST-S and Dr Tammy Nelson, CST-S. Natalie is trained in EMDR Therapy with advanced training in AF-EMDR (Attachment Focused EMDR) with Dr Laurel Parnell. 

In this episode, you will hear:

  • The physical and psychological reasons why erections occur
  • How as men get older they need a mixture of physical and psychological stimulation to get an erection
  • The criteria that needs to be met to be diagnosed with erectile dysfunction
  • How erectile dysfunction is related to all sexual activity, not just for example masturbation
  • The physiological and psychological causes of erectile dysfunction
  • Why men prefer the problem to be physiological
  • How taking Viagra can make things worse if the problem is psychological
  • The effects anxiety can have in relation to erectile dysfunction
  • The impact erectile dysfunction can have on couples / relationships
  • How masturbation and pornography can affect erectile dysfunction
  • Available treatments both medically and psychologically
  • The average time treatments can take
  • The additional benefits mindfulness can bring
  • The importance of communication to help overcome this issue
  • Ways you can regain your sexual energy
  • Understanding that erectile dysfunction is a multi-layered issue that needs ongoing support

 

 

Resources

http://www.creatingchangela.com

natalie@creatingchangela.com

Mar 23, 2017

Welcome to episode 11 of the Sexology Podcast, today I’m going to talk about 4 myths around sex that I see are very common in my practice. Originally, I wanted to do 13 myths to tie in with the Persian new year but that might have taken a little while to record… So the myths I have chosen are the ones I hear most frequently in my practice, and I hope this episode will shed some light and truth on these myths.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

 

Myth 1 – Penis size dictates a woman’s sexual pleasure

 

  • The average penis size when erect is around 13cm or anywhere between 9 – 16cm
  • In inches, the average size is from 4.7 to 5.1 inches
  • How the medias idea of 7 inches being the average size is wrong
  • How shame and anxiety come into play because of this myth
  • Research shows that the size of a penis has no true physiological effect on female sexual satisfaction
  • The importance around the perceived size of a man’s penis
  • How men who perceive their penis to be small suffer from sexual confidence
  • Feeling comfortable and confident with your body and penis size to have a good sex life

 

Myth 2 – How masturbation has destructive consequences physiologically and mentally

 

  • Research shows that 60 – 94% of men have masturbated at least once, with 40 – 60% having done it in the last month
  • 43 – 85% of women have masturbated at least once, with 20 – 43% having done it in the last month
  • There’s no known negative consequences physiologically or mentally from masturbation
  • Studies have shown it helps in knowing one’s own needs for sexual pleasure, increased autonomy and body integrity improving self-esteem
  • How the myths of masturbation date back to the 17th century
  • How the majority of people continue masturbating when in a committed relationship

 

Myth 3 – Men are obsessed with sex and women don’t think about it

 

  • There’s no data to support the idea that men think about sex every 7 seconds
  • How this myth puts pressure on men to be overly sexual

 

Myth 4 – Vaginal sex is the best way for women to reach orgasm

 

  • How Freud invented the term “Vaginal Orgasm” without scientific basis
  • Most women can’t reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, they need clitoris stimulation and other kinds of stimulation to reach orgasm
  • How men can get frustrated because they can’t make women reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone

 

 

Resources

http://oasis2care.com

Mar 14, 2017

Welcome to episode 10 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Emily Nagoski. In this episode, Emily talks about the dual control model and how sex works in the brain, how attachment with our partners affects our sex life and the societal factors that affect women’s sexuality.

Emily is the author of the New York Times bestseller, COME AS YOU ARE: The surprising new science that will transform your sex life (Simon & Schuster, 2015). She has a Ph.D. in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a Master’s degree (also from IU) in Counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She also has a B.A. in Psychology, with minors in cognitive science and philosophy, from the University of Delaware. While at IU, Emily worked as an educator and docent at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex Gender and Reproduction. She also taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. 

Emily is also the author of three guides for Ian Kerner’s GoodInBed.com: The Good in Bed Guide to Orally Pleasuring a Man, The Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms, and A Scientific Guide to Successful Relationships, as well as both author and narrator of Come as You Are.

A sex nerd among sex nerds, Emily has the lowest Erdős number of any sex educator in the world. She lives in western Massachusetts with two dogs, two cats, and a cartoonist. She’s funnier in real life (and hardly ever speaks in the third person).

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • The dual control model and how sex works in the brain
  • The concept of break and accelerators
  • Sexual relevancy and the importance of context
  • How it’s easier to change our external environments rather than internal
  • Figuring out how to turn of the things that are hitting our sexual brakes
  • Eating disorders; the struggle with self-image
  • How the shame around body shape and size is more harmful than the fat itself
  • Learning to love your partner as their body naturally changes
  • How attachment with our partners affects our sex life
  • Why your brain thinks sex is more exciting at the start of a new relationship
  • Learning to be close with your partner whilst still sexually attracted
  • Societal factors that affect women’s sexuality
  • The taboo of women who love sex, e.g being called a slut
  • Why we shouldn’t live up societies standards for our sexual accelerators and brakes

Resources

http://www.thedirtynormal.com

http://emilynagoski.com/come-as-you-are

https://twitter.com/emilynagoski

Mar 7, 2017

Welcome to episode 09 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Sandra LaMorgese. In this episode, Sandra speaks about how she made her journey into BDSM at the age of 55, misconceptions around the BDSM community and turning openness and vulnerability into a source of empowerment.

Sandra is an author, speaker, and CEO of Attainment Studios, a sex positive business directory website designed to bring together members of the sex-positive community, and for finding solutions for your professional and personal needs. She is an expert in communications, life transformation, authentic living, health, wellness, and intimacy.

Sandra is also an internationally featured Huffington Post blogger, a regular writer for Arianna Huffington’s new health and wellness platform Thrive Global, and among the top 10% of writer on Medium in 2016. She was listed as having the “Coolest Job in NYC” by Thrillist NYC, and her interview and photo shoot with Huffington Post ‘15 Unbelievable Photos of A 60-Year-Old Dominatrix with Her Client‘ article made the ‘MOST SHARED’, WHAT’S HOT and ‘TRENDING’ lists on The Huffington Post in the United States and Australia. 

Her recent book Switch: Time for a Change, is a memoir about how her later profession as a dominatrix ultimately allowed her to change her previously blind adherence to “the rules,” and to enter into a whole different kind of contract with a truer version of herself. Sandra was able to change her thoughts, feelings, and beliefs in order to embrace a passionate and fulfilled life.

In this episode, you will hear:

  • Sandra’s background and the different roles she’s had in her career
  • How she made her journey into being a dominatrix at 55 years of age
  • The relationship between vulnerability and authenticity
  • How the internal changes we make to ourselves can impact our surroundings
  • Exploring the unconscious through sexual play
  • How Sandra becomes present and mindful in her BDSM sessions
  • The importance of really connecting when being intimate
  • Misconceptions around the BDSM community
  • The dynamic of dominance and submission
  • How people of power like to be a submissive in BDSM
  • The connection between sexual energy and creativity
  • The importance of trusting the process with BDSM
  • Turning openness and vulnerability into a source of empowerment
  • Giving a voice to our true self
  • Overcoming boredom through excitement and curiosity

 

Resources

http://sandralamorgese.com

https://www.amazon.com/Sandra-Lamorgese-Ph-D/e/B01MCWCQZL

https://twitter.com/SandraLaMorgese

Feb 28, 2017

Welcome to episode 08 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Duane Osterlind. In this episode, Duane talks about the issues around sex addiction, how to recognize it, stages of recovery and what a healthy sexuality looks like afterwards. 

As co-founder of NOVUS Mindful Life Institute, Duane Osterlind’s vision is to provide comprehensive care for individuals struggling with process addictions in the utmost confidential, comprehensive and caring environment to ensure clients feel safe and accepted with anticipation that recovery is possible.

Duane has over eight years of experience as a therapist helping individuals find hope and healing. He received his Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from California State University, Long Beach. He has also trained with Patrick Carnes, P.hD., a leading expert in the treatment of sexual addiction issues and author of “Out of the Shadows”. He is a member of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT), and the Society of Sexual Health (SASH). MFT#44567

Duane’s clinical focus is on treating individuals and couples struggling with process addictions using a mindfulness and task centered approach. He facilitates the Men’s Sexual Addiction Process Group and well as a DBT group for individuals struggling with anxiety and depression.

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • If people should identify hyper sexual disorder as an addiction
  • Recognizing and distinguishing someone with a diverse sexuality to sex addiction
  • Looking at the compulsive nature of sex addiction
  • The three main domains which identify people struggling with sex addiction
  • Changes in the frequency of acting out behaviour
  • Gender differences
  • Distinguishing the difference between love and sex addiction
  • Links between chemical and sexual addiction
  • Difficulty in forming deep relationships
  • The different stages of recovery
  • The need to have more than just a couple of therapy sessions
  • The process of healing through other group members
  • Going through abstinence and becoming ready for a relationship
  • What healthy sexuality looks like after addiction  
  • The three circle plan and its use in therapy  

 

Resources

https://novusmindfullife.com

https://theaddictedmind.com

Feb 21, 2017

Welcome to episode 07 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Stacy. In this episode, she speaks to me about how she became involved in the work of sexual inhibition, the issues around boredom and losing interest in sex and the importance of communication.

Dr. Stacy got into the field of Clinical Sexology because of her passion for helping people better connect and experience the best sexual intimacy with themselves or with their partner(s). She holds a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality in addition to a Masters in Clinical Sexology and is a Certified Sex Coach. She is a member of WASC (World Association of Sex Coaching), including ACS (The American College of Sexologists) which shows that she has the earned top credentials in my field. She also has a BA in Psychology and is a Registered Diagnostic Medical Sonographer and Vascular Sonographer.

She has been a consultant selling adult novelties since 2006 and has had the experience of reaching many men and women to educate them in a fun, positive approach to love, romance and all aspects of sexuality. Her education and own sexual journey and life experience enable her to help you move forward in a positive direction to face the challenges that may lie ahead and to achieve your goals. Coaching is designed to help women, men, of any sexual orientation or gender, address their concerns about sexuality, sexual function, and sexual expression.

In this episode, you will hear:

  • How Dr. Stacey became involved in the work of sexual inhibition
  • The definition of sex inhibition
  • Boredom and the issue of losing interest in sex
  • The factors that lead to people developing sex inhibition
  • How there is two kinds of inhibitive sex, primary and secondary
  • Recommendations for women to overcome negative emotions
  • Losing and re-kindling sexual desire in long-term relationships
  • The importance of foreplay
  • Navigating different levels of desire in a relationship
  • How education through pornography can make things worse
  • Gender differences around the issue of inhibition
  • Communicating with your partner openly and positively about these issues

 

Resources

http://www.drstacy.org

https://www.facebook.com/DrStacySexCoach

 

Feb 14, 2017

Welcome to episode 06 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Lonnie Barbach. In this episode, Lonnie speaks to me about the issues surrounding female sexuality such as faking orgasms, the need for good communication and overcoming boredom to improve sex in a relationship.

 

Dr Barbach's work as a couple’s therapist for more than three decades and the publication of Going the Distance: Finding and Keeping Lifelong Love crafted with David Geisinger, Ph.D., her partner of 32 years, has defined her as an acknowledged expert on intimate relationships. She is skilled in a variety of treatment modalities in treating individuals and couples with problems ranging from anxiety and depression to parenting and communication issues.

 

Considered a pioneer in her field, her dozen books, translated into an equal number of languages, have sold over 4 million copies in the U.S. alone. She is a life member of the American Psychological Association and is currently Director of Content for Happy Couple, a quiz-style game that takes you from dating to building a healthy and sustainable relationship.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • The physiological aspects of a woman reaching an orgasm
  • The need for a slow build up and feeling safe in the relationship
  • Faking orgasms and teaching your partner that the wrong things are right
  • Difficulties in finding good information and believing external standards
  • Good starting points for couples exploring what they like to do sexually
  • Studies which highlight what makes for a great relationship / marriage
  • Issues around boredom, overworking and not prioritizing the relationship
  • Importance of communication
  • Things that hinder women to experience arousal
  • How differences in amount of desire needed can affect a relationship
  • How not being so goal oriented can improve the experience for most people
  • Reading resources together to improve sex
  • Why Lonnie created “Happy Couple” (A couple’s game app)

 

Resources

http://www.happycouple.co

http://www.lonniebarbach.com

Feb 7, 2017

Welcome to episode 05 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Abigail Weissman. In this interview with Abi, she speaks to me about the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity, how she began her work on gender identity and the importance of language and pronouns in this area.

 

Abigail "Abi" Weissman, Psy.D. (PSY 27497) is a feminist and lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans*, and queer, intersex, and questioning (LGBTQIQ)- affirming, polyamory - affirming, BDSM/kink - friendly, multiculturally competent, clinical psychologist who is warm, welcoming, and empowering with a wealth of clinical experience. She has a Master of Arts in Human Sexuality studies and a Doctorate and Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology. She hails from the East Coast by way of the Bay Area, CA. When not providing psychotherapy, training, or consultation, she can be found reading the latest research on queer sexuality, gender identity, and spending time with her family and friends.

pronouns: she, her, hers

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • The difference between sexual orientation and gender identity
  • How one’s internal sense of self is how you determine gender identity
  • Association of politics in gender identity
  • Working with teens, dealing with exploration
  • What it means to have a gender that is neither male or female
  • When people first notice their gender identity
  • How gender identity can be discovered as young as two and half years of age
  • Support parents can offer to children issues around gender identity; bullying etc
  • Misconceptions around transgender women and men
  • Barriers around surgery for transgender people
  • The importance of use of language and pronouns in these issues

 

 

Resources

http://www.doctorabi.com

http://www.glsen.org

Call - (619) 403-5578

Email - info@doctorabi.com

Jan 31, 2017

Welcome to episode 04 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr. Lisa Wade. Lisa is an associate professor of sociology at Occidental College. In this conversation, Lisa talks in-depth about the history of hook up culture, its impact on sexual attitudes and relationships, motivations behind the culture and its long-term effects.

 

She is currently on leave and living in New Orleans, the place she calls home. Her newest book, American Hookup, is about the emergence and character of the culture of sex that dominates college campuses today. Before receiving her PhD in sociology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, Lisa earned an MA in human sexuality from NYU and a BA in philosophy from the University of California-Santa Barbara. 

Lisa has authored over a dozen academic research articles and a textbook on the sociology of gender. She also actively contributes to media, writing extensively for non-academic audiences and appearing on television and radio.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • How hook up culture is not an option but an imperative on college campuses
  • The hierarchical structure, motivations being related to status
  • How the structure is related more to heterosexual sex
  • Differences between the genders around hook up culture
  • How hook up culture satisfies male needs more than females needs
  • The evolution that’s happening around the culture in the USA
  • The history of college rioting, resulting in the first social fraternity being founded in Schenectady, New York in 1825.
  • The cultural impact of the movie “Animal House”
  • How raising the drinking age from 18 to 21 gave more power to fraternity’s
  • The development of cities and their impact on a changing culture around sex
  • The dynamical differences of hook up culture for young people not in college
  • Long-term effects of hook up culture on attitudes towards sex and relationships

 

Resources

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/30231781-american-hookup

https://lisa-wade.com

email: lwade@oxy.edu

 

 

 

 

Jan 24, 2017

 

Sexology Podcast EP03 – Tamara Powell

 

Welcome to episode 03 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Tamara Powell, LMHC. Tamara is the owner of Arya Therapy Services, the now global phenomenon in holistic health and healing. More recently, she founded Tales from a Trapezoid dedicated to the more raw and edgier side of life, working with those who may often feel like a trapezoid in a world full of circles.

 

Tamara tends not to believe in limitations or pathology, only what she calls the “nearsightedness of that comes from either not knowing better OR creative, yet maladaptive attempts to get one’s needs met.” Her goal is to assist individuals and couples in tackling all of life’s challenges, whether mentally, emotionally, or spiritually.

 

 

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • Tamara’s experience working with sexually diverse clients
  • The definition of a polyamorous relationship
  • Who chooses polyamory and why
  • The misconceptions behind polyamorous relationships
  • How people transition from monogamist relationships
  • Working against the taboo and how people are concerned to ask questions
  • The religious and cultural connections to polyamory
  • The difference between polyamory, polygamy and swinging
  • Raising children in polyamorous relationships
  • How children can benefit because they have more resources
  • The strengths of polyamory
  • How to deal with jealousy

 

Resources

Tamara's websites:

 

https://aryatherapy.com

https://aryatherapy.com/about-the-podcast (Undressing The Spirit Podcast)

https://talesfromatrapezoid.com

Love in Abundance : A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships (Book) -

https://www.amazon.com/Love-Abundance-Counselors-Relationships-Paperback/dp/B01FYKSULG/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1485030260&sr=8-1&keywords=love+in+abundance

Jan 17, 2017

Welcome to episode 02 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Heather Seguin, who is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Rancho Cucamonga, CA. She help couples and individuals create lives that reflect their deepest values and priorities. We all need someone to talk to now and then, especially when life gets messy. She often meets with people who feel stuck in life. Maybe you want to communicate better with your significant other, but you find yourself repeating the same old argument. Perhaps you struggle with self-confidence and it's keeping you from advancing at work. She will help you work through the things that are getting in your way so that you can have the life and relationships you want.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

 

  • Different patterns that show how affairs can start
  • The difference between affairs and sex addictions
  • Similarities between sex additions and other addictions, E.G; Gambling, Drinking
  • Feeling shame and not having control on behaviour
  • How not all affairs are sexual
  • Coping with the trauma of discovering an affair or sex addiction
  • Digging deeper into a partners 3rd party sexual relationships
  • Rebuilding trust if you stay in the relationship
  • The impact on sexual confidence and reclaiming your sexual life
  • Working with a sex therapist to overcome the issues
  • Deepening the relationship after overcoming an affair or sex addiction

 

 

Resources

 

http://clearchoicecounseling.com

https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Intelligence-Addiction-Katehakis-Alexandra/dp/B0157JJFY0/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1484591699&sr=1-2&keywords=erotic+intelligence

 

Jan 10, 2017

Welcome to episode 01 of the Sexology Podcast, today my guest is Dr Albert Wong. Dr Albert Wong is Marshall Scholar educated at Princeton and Oxford and has received extensive training in couple’s therapy from some of the nation’s leading relationship experts.

In the 1990s, he served as residential staff at the Esalen Institute for five years and has been featured on PBS, in Time Magazine, and the book The American Soul Rush. His work has been published in titles ranging from the scientific journal Biological Cybernetics to the book anthology Radical Spirit. One of his film projects, Step One Breathe, was named Best Drama at the Maryville Film Festival. He recently presented a workshop at the International Conference of the Association for the Advancement of Gestalt Therapy entitled Many Dances, One Rhythm: A Somatic Exploration of Gestalt-Based Movement Practices.

 

In this episode, you will hear:

  • Listening with “the full being” and “the full body”
  • The effects of mindfulness training and body awareness
  • Living in the present moment
  • Creating a safety net with a partner by learning to accept situations
  • How the goal of mindfulness is to let go of goals
  • Being more mindful whilst intimate
  • Creating awareness with your partner, eye gazing
  • Creating open minded communication
  • Planning sex with your partner
  • Dealing with shame and negative emotions
  • Viewing shame as part of the experience
  • How sex is a whole-body experience
  • Reaching out to people we feel safe with when dealing with shame

 

Resources

 

http://www.dralbertwong.com

Phone - 415.545.8899

 

 

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