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Sexology podcast untangles the science of sex and pleasure. Each week, Dr. Nazanin Moali interviews experts, psychologists and researchers to explore the most intriguing findings in psychology of sex and intimacy. Sexology podcast will give you insight into all that you have ever wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask. Join us in this weekly journey to examine sexuality and pleasure from a scientific perspective.
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May 26, 2020

Welcome to episode 178 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Holly Richmond back to the podcast. In this episode she speaks with me about shame after sexual trauma, how survivors can regain their desire, learning to re-engage with positive sexual experiences and the importance of seeking out sex positive therapists.   

  

Dr. Holly Richmond is a Somatic Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist (CST), and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT). She is one of North America’s leading sex therapists serving Hollywood’s elite as well as prominent corporate clientele, nationally and internationally. With offices in New York, Los Angeles and Portland, Dr. Holly is a trusted authority on sexual health issues with a significant media following. 

  

She is regularly quoted in publications and media outlets including The New York Times, CNN, Shape, NBC, Wired, Forbes, Health, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, and Women’s Health. She is a sought-after consultant in the sex tech industry and is seen as a pioneer in bridging the gap between sexual health and entertainment. Dr. Holly’s ‘Next-Sex’ platform and forthcoming book reflect her keen interest in the exploration of sex and technology, and how they work together as human sexuality evolves in the 21st century. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Why do survivors experience shame around sex? 
  • Misconceptions around the causes of rape  
  • How people feel sexual shame after trauma in their bodies? 
  • Learning to show up for your body  
  • Navigating having positive sexual experiences  
  • Unhealthy habits survivors can pick up  
  • How desire disappears as survivors restrict their sexuality  
  • Looking at sexual dysfunctions  
  • Why it’s important to seek out a sex positive therapist  
 

 

 

Find Dr. Holly online 

http://drhollyrichmond.com 

http://www.next-sex.com  

Episode 106 with Dr. Holly 

  

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

Find me on social media:   

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https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

Download my new ebook for free here:   

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe  

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

  

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

May 19, 2020

Welcome to episode 177 of the Sexology Podcast, my guest today is Dr. Anita Johnson. In this episode, she speaks with me about the issues of body shame, how it affects people’s lives and learning to change your relationship with your body from within.  

  

Anita Johnston, Ph.D., is a Depth Psychologist and author of Eating in the Light of the Moon, which has been published in six languages. She is the co-creator of the online course, Light of the Moon Café which is an interactive “workbook” and women’s support circle for Eating in the Light of the Moon, and she is the author of a book chapters and other professional journal articles. 

  

She has been working in the field of women’s issues and disordered eating for over 35 years and is currently the Clinical Director of ‘Ai Pono Hawaii which has outpatient eating disorder programs in Honolulu, the Big Island of Hawaii, and a residential treatment program in Maui. 

  

Dr. Johnston provides individual consultations online, and conducts Soul Hunger workshops and professional trainings around the world, using metaphor and storytelling, along with her training as a clinical psychologist, to address the complex issues that underlie struggles with eating, weight, and body image. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • How body image shame affects people's lives  
  • The way in which young women are exposed to many forms of sex before their first kiss 
  • How we internalize sexual messaging in today’s culture  
  • Knowing that you can set the pace for your sexual life  
  • Why sex gets better as you get older  
  • Learning to change your relationship with your body from within  
  • Why if somebody is making negative comments about you, it’s says more about them than you 
  • How we’re overcoming generations of sexual conditioning 
 

 

Find Dr. Anita online 

http://www.DrAnitaJohnston.com 

http://www.LightoftheMoonCafe.com 

Schoolgirls; Young Women, Self-Esteem, and the Confidence Gap 

Episode 42 with Anita 

  

Take the Sex Quiz for Women here: 

https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz/

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

Download my new ebook for free here:   

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe  

  

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

  

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

May 12, 2020

Welcome to episode 176 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Carolina Pataky to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Carolina speaks to me about virtual sex, ways in which people are having virtual sex in 2020, the importance of security and privacy and how to keep virtual sex playful.  

  

Co-founder of the Love Discovery Institute, Dr. Carolina Pataky is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist. Recognized as one of South Florida’s leading authorities on intimacy, relationships and self-discovery. Her focus is to give individuals and couples of any sexual preference the tools to learn how to love themselves unconditionally, receive love, and create fulfilling and joyful relationships that will last a lifetime. Through private sessions, couples’ intensives and luxury retreats, she provides individual and couples coaching sessions, sex therapy, and psychotherapy practices that support clients through the journey of finding the right path to healthy love. 

  

  

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How are people having virtual sex in 2020? 
  • Knowing when it’s a good time to initiate virtual sex with a new partner? 
  • Why it’s important to not assume what your partner may or may not feel around virtual sex  
  • Overcoming fear of rejection  
  • Setting yourself up for success  
  • Looking at security and privacy issues, when is the right time to trust a new partner? 
  • How to keep virtual sex playful and fun  
  • Why less is more when it comes to virtual sex  
  • Overcoming being self-conscious on camera  
  • How to not have awkwardness after climaxing on a virtual sex call 
 
 

 

Find Dr. Carolina here:   

https://twitter.com/carolinapataky 

  

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

Download my new ebook for free here:   

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe  

  

If you are interested in booking a video counseling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

  

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio  

May 5, 2020

Welcome to episode 175 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir speaks with me about sex and medicine, looking at the side effects medications can have on your sex life and how to approach this issue with your physician.

  

Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”. 

  

Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine. 

  

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How common is it for anti-depressants to cause issues with sexuality?  
  • Learning to accept medication as part of your sexual makeup  
  • Taking a look at psychiatric medicines  
  • Do men and women get the same side effects from medication?  
  • How sex and masturbation can be used as a coping strategy  
  • Looking at the side effects medicine can have on your sex life  
  • The importance of finding the correct information in this area  
  • How to approach this issue with a physician  
 

  

Find Amir here:   

EP163 – Sexsomonia  

  

Find me online:   

http://www.sexologypodcast.com  

  

Find me on social media:   

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care  

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care   

  

Download my new ebook for free here:   

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/  

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe  

  

If you are interested in booking a video counseling session with Dr. Moali:

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist   

  

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

Apr 28, 2020

Welcome to episode 174 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I delve into the subject of experiencing orgasms, overcoming performance anxiety, the importance of communication and steps you can take to improve your orgasms.  

  

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How anyone can achieve having great orgasms  
  • Cultural factors that play into this issue  
  • Steps you can take to improve orgasms  
  • Analyzing how long this has been a problem 
  • How a lack of sex education can lead to issues with orgasms  
  • Are you getting aroused during sex? 
  • Looking at the quality of your relationship with your partner  
  • Can medication affect sexual performance 
  • How ageing affects our sex drive  
  • The ways in which mental health can affect orgasms  
  • The importance of giving good sexual feedback 
  • Wanting to explore sexual areas your partner doesn’t  
  • Learning to properly understand your body 
  • Overcoming performance anxiety  
  • Improving your communication skills  
 
 
 

 

Resources: 

Come As You Are  

 

Find me online:  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:  

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

 

Download my new ebook for free here:  

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot: 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe 

 

If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Apr 21, 2020

Welcome to episode 173 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Rachel Needle to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Needle speaks with me about threesomes, how common fantasizing about them is, learning to manage your emotions and being honest about your motivation.  

  

Dr. Rachel Needle is the founder and Executive Director of the Whole Health Psychological Center. She is a Licensed Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and an entrepreneur. Dr. Needle has specialized training in the areas of Substance Use Disorder, Trauma, Sex, and Relationships. She received her M.S. and Psy.D. in clinical psychology from Nova Southeastern University, her B.A. in psychology from Barnard College, Columbia University, and completed an internship in clinical psychology at University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey: Robert Wood Medical School in Piscataway, New Jersey. 

  

Dr. Needle is an Adjunct Professor of Psychology in the Department of Behavioral Sciences, in the Masters in Forensic Psychology, and in the Doctorate in Criminal Justice programs at Nova Southeastern University. She is the founder and CEO of the Advanced Mental Health Training Institute and Co-Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes which provide continuing education, certifications, and a Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology to Mental Health and Medical professionals and Sex Therapists around the world. 

  

Dr. Needle has presented her research and clinical work at national and international conferences. She is often interviewed by and quoted in national media outlets. She has been featured in a number of popular magazines such as Details, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Details, and Shape, and papers including the Washington Post and the Palm Beach Post. She has written several articles for Glamour Magazine’s online Blog: Smitten. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How common are threesome fantasies?  
  • Deciding when it’s a good time to act on these fantasies  
  • The way in which we have a blurred view of threesomes because of porn  
  • Learning to manage your emotions  
  • Understanding the challenges of having a threesome  
  • How the fantasy might be more attractive than the reality  
  • Where to find a third partner  
  • Recommendations for managing jealousy around threesomes  
  • Being honest about your motivation  
  • Understanding it’s a process and not to give up if you didn’t enjoy the first time  
 
 

 

Find Dr. Needle here:  

www.drrachel.com 

www.modernsextherapyinstitutes.com  

 

Find me online:  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:  

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

 

Download my new ebook for free here:  

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe 

 

If you are interested in booking a video counseling session with Dr. Moali:

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Apr 17, 2020

Welcome to this bonus episode of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Barry Davis to the podcast. In this episode Barry speaks with me about how we can better manage as couples being in lockdown, tips for those who are struggling and what we can all do as frustration starts to build up.  

 

Divorce Mediator, Barry Davis has been a full-time mediator since 2003 and specializes in working with divorcing couples. His passion for helping couples through this difficult time, his extensive mediation and counseling training (including two advanced degrees) and his fifteen years as a businessperson, equip him to deal with both the practical and the emotional aspects of divorce.  

  

His approach is to assist couples in working through their specific issues as constructively as possible by helping them minimize negative tactics, emphasize productive ways to make decisions and focus on the big picture (such as the best interests of the children and/or not wasting a couple’s entire net worth on a costly court battle). By utilizing a multi-faceted approach that includes identifying the couple’s true issues and concerns, facilitating productive communication and educating the couple concerning possible outcomes, Barry has been able to achieve success in the majority of mediations he facilitates. 

  

After completing an undergraduate degree in sociology at University of California, Santa Barbara, Barry embarked on a thirteen-year career in the telecommunications industry where he established a track record of success in sales management, marketing and business development with the two industry leaders, AT&T and MCI. 

 Education Institute.  

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How we can better manage being in lockdown as a couple?  
  • The challenges relationships will face being in a confined space  
  • Looking at what distinguishes negative conflict  
  • Tips for couples who are struggling with lockdown  
  • What we can all do as frustration starts to build up  
  • Thoughts on potential separations that could happen during lockdown  
  • How some couples might be able to use the time to turn things around 
  • Recommendations for couples who want to get through this positively  
 
To download the conflict management worksheet, click here.

 

Find Barry here:  

 

Find me online:  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:  

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

 

Download my new ebook for free here:  

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe 

 

If you are interested in booking a video counseling session with Dr. Moali: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Apr 14, 2020

Welcome to episode 172 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am thrilled to welcome Marla Renee Stewart, MA to the podcast. In this episode Marla speaks to me about pervertables, how you can use them to improve your sex life and tips and techniques for improving virtual sex.  

  

Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a professional sex, intimacy and relationship coach, sexologist, and sex educator. Not only is she a Lecturer at Clayton State University, she is also the Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective.  

 

She also created the sexual education company, Velvet Lips, 9 years ago to empower people of all ages to embrace, educate and enjoy their sexuality and their sexual lives. She has studied human sexuality for more than 18 years at San Francisco State University and Georgia State University, respectively, and has expert knowledge in a wide variety of subjects. She has published academic articles and continues to do sexuality research.  

 

She has conducted workshops at conferences, not-for-profit and private organizations, and has been featured on many radio shows, television shows, documentaries, books, magazines and has been invited to speak at Universities around the world. She also sits on the board for the SPARK Reproductive Justice Now! and Diverse Sexualities Research and Education Institute.  

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • What is a pervertable?  
  • Incorporating everyday items into your sex life  
  • Which items work and don’t work for anal pleasure 
  • Being more creative sexually whilst on lockdown  
  • Using music to enhance your sexual pleasure  
  • Learning to bring the sense of adventure to your home  
  • Cultivating sexual confidence  
  • Overcoming layers of shame and guilt that might be getting in the way  
  • How you can up level your sexual pleasure even if it’s a good level 
  • Tips & techniques for improving virtual sex  
 
 

 

Find Marla here:  

Find me online:  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:  

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

 

Download my new ebook for free here:  

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe 

 

If you are interested in booking a video counseling session with Dr. Moali:

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Apr 7, 2020

Welcome to episode 171 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Jess O’ Reilly to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Jess speaks with me about seductive communication, keeping things sexy while separated and cultivating your core erotic feelings. 

  

Dr. Jess O’Reilly began working as a sexuality counselor in 2001 and she has never looked back! Her PhD studies involved the development of training programs in sex education for teachers and her education and undergraduate degrees focused on equity and sexual diversity. 

  

Her training includes courses in counselling skills, healthy relationships, resolving sexual concerns, sex education, clinical sexology, sexual development, sex and disability, group therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. 

  

Alongside her academic and television credits, Dr. Jess is also an accomplished author with three best-selling titles. Her latest, The New Sex Bible, has received rave reviews from professionals and clients alike and her first book Hot Sex Tips,Tricks and Licks is in its fourth print! Look for her monthly column in Post City or catch her on Tuesday mornings on Global TV’s The Morning Show, Wednesdays on 102.1 The Edge and Saturdays on PlayboyTV. 

  

Dr. Jess’ work experience includes contracts with school boards, social services agencies, community health organizations and private corporations. A sought-after speaker, her sessions always attract a full-house at conferences and entertainment events alike. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • Taking a look at seductive communication  
  • Assessing our own strengths and weaknesses around seduction  
  • Exploring sexting and teledildonecs 
  • Looking at and understanding the best platform for you to use  
  • Keeping things sexy whilst separated  
  • Making the most of sex toys  
  • Understanding what your partner is most receptive to  
  • Cultivating your core erotic feelings  
  • The need to change our lifestyles to have better sex 
  • Making scheduled sex work  
  • Tips for busy couples who want to re-kindle their sex lives  
 
 

 

Find Dr. Jess here:  

https://www.sexwithdrjess.com  

 

Find me online:  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:  

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

 

Download my new ebook for free here:  

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe 

 

If you are interested in booking a video counseling session with Dr. Moali:

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Mar 31, 2020

Welcome to episode 170 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome back Martha Kauppi, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Martha speaks to us again about polyamory, why opening a relationship doesn’t have to mean separation, how there are different types of polyamory and the importance of self-regulation throughout this process. 

  

Martha Kauppi, LMFT, is an educator, AASECT-certified sex therapist and supervisor, and AAMFT-approved supervisor. She specializes in relational sex therapy, including alternative family structures, and trains therapists to work effectively at the intersection of sex issues and relationship challenges.  

 

Martha’s mission is to make sex a safe topic in therapy rooms everywhere by developing unique educational experiences and immediately-applicable learning materials for therapists. She has a book coming out in August 2020 about working effectively with clinical challenges related to polyamory. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How can someone know if polyamory is right for them?  
  • Why opening a relationship doesn’t have to mean separation  
  • Looking at the different structures and dynamics of polyamory  
  • How there is different types of polyamory 
  • Is there a customary way of going polyamorous?  
  • Developing meaningful relationships within polyamory 
  • Using apps such as Ok Cupid to meet other polyamorous people  
  • Approaching the other partner around going polyamorous  
  • The importance of self-regulation throughout this process  
 

 

Find Martha here:  

https://instituteforrelationalintimacy.com  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/02/26/does-polyamory-work  

 

Find me online:  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:  

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

 

Download my new ebook for free here:  

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot 

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe 

 

If you are interested to book a video counseling with Dr. Moali 

 https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Mar 24, 2020

Welcome to episode 169 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Eileen Crehan to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Crehan speaks to me about sexuality and autism, how an autism diagnosis might get in the way of sexual desire, the importance of being pro-active about what you want sexually and recommendations for individuals with ADS who would like to have fulfilling sex lives. 

  

Dr. Crehan is a clinical psychologist and specialist in autism spectrum disorder. In particular, she focuses on adolescents and adults with autism spectrum disorder and promoting healthy development in the domains of sexuality, physical health, and social abilities. Dr. Crehan’s lab at Tufts University integrates the perspective and insights of autistic individuals through an advisory board and by surveying autistic adults about their priorities for research on autism across the lifespan.  

 

Currently, she is focused on exploring best structures for sexuality education programming, adapting teaching materials to the learning needs of autistic individuals with a range of intellectual and language abilities, and disseminating sexuality education curricula using telehealth systems. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How does an autism diagnosis impact one’s pursuit of romantic and sexual relationships? 
  • How an autism diagnosis might get in the way of sexual desire 
  • What are some of the myths about sexuality when it comes to this population? 
  • Practical measures people with autism can take to better pursue a healthy sex life 
  • How can a parent of a child with ASD talk about sex with their child? 
  • Making sure to find the correct and right resources 
  • Understanding that people with autism can have a great sex life  
  • Looking at online dating sites for those with autism  
  • The importance of being pro-active about what you want sexually  
  • What are your recommendations for individuals with ADS who would like to have fulfilling sex lives? 
 

 

Find Dr. Eileen Crehan here:  

eileen.crehan@tufts.edu  

https://www.facebook.com/crehanlabtufts  

 

Sex & Autism Resources: 

https://researchautism.org/sex-ed-guide/ 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RgsUbkqJ8ro 

 

Find me online:  

http://www.sexologypodcast.com 

 

Find me on social media:  

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

 

Download my new ebook for free here:  

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/ 

  

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot:

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe 

 

If you are interested to book a video counseling with Dr. Moali:

 https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

Mar 20, 2020

Welcome to this bonus episode of the Sexology Podcast.  In this episode, we answer some of the burning questions that you have around sex in the time of coronavirus. 

 

In this episode we discuss:

  • Is it okay to have sex?
  • What are some of the ways to have hot sex that minimizes your exposure?
  • How to effectively manage your anxiety during this time so it wont ruin your sex life
  • How to use this time of quarantine to elevate your sex life

 

Previous episodes mentioned in this show:

 

Learn how to practice Orgasmic Breathing

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas/

 

How to master peaking

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/07/30/self-pleasure-and-peaking/




Download my new ebook for free here:

https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/

 

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot

http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe

 

 

If you are interested to book a video counseling with Dr. Moali,

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Mar 17, 2020

Note: This episode was pre-recorded two months ago. Like the rest of the world, we are experiencing the reality and stress of the current COVID-19 situation. Our hearts go out to those who have been directly affected by this pandemic, and we are deeply saddened by its impact on our community. We will be releasing an episode soon addressing COVID-19 and sex. We hope all of you are taking the necessary precautions to keep you and your loved ones safe. 

 

Welcome to episode 168 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Andrea Barrica to the podcast. In this episode Andrea speaks to me about the sex tech revolution, overcoming negative stigma around sexual wellness and why we need more advocacy in this area.  

  

Andrea Barrica is CEO and Founder of O.school, a judgment-free media platform to learn about sexuality and pleasure. As a queer woman of color, she’s been fighting to bring more humanity to the tech industry, and her mission is to create the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brand to help people increase their sexual health, power, and confidence. Previously, Andrea co-founded the leading financial solution for growing startups, inDinero.com, which now employs 150+ employees globally. She also served as a venture partner at 500 Startups, a global venture capital fund, where she worked with hundreds of startup companies.  

  

Andrea was raised in a religious, conservative Filipino family that only taught abstinence and she only had fear-based sex education in public schools. Seeking support and information, Barrica could not find reliable resources and experienced harassment online. Determined that no one else should have to struggle like she did, Barrica launched O.school in 2017 to change the way people learn about sexuality. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How can sex tech improve women’s sex lives? 
  • Overcoming negative stigma around investing in your sexual health 
  • How did Andrea get involved in this field?  
  • The first things Andrea explored when examining sexual wellness products  
  • How did Andrea raise the money needed?  
  • Why we are behind in innovation and solutions when it comes to sexual wellness  
  • Why it’s difficult to teach people about sexual wellness 
  • What does Andrea see in the future of sexual wellness
  • The need for more advocacy in this area  
  • Why Andrea started the O School  
 

 

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Mar 10, 2020

Welcome to episode 167 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Elizabeth Schroeder, EdD, MSW to the podcast. In this episode Elizabeth speaks with me about sex education, the importance of good communication with your children about sex and ways in which parents can learn more to help their children.  

  

Elizabeth Schroeder, EdD, MSW (she/her/hers)is an award-winning educator, trainer, program consultant and author specializing in sexuality education pedagogy and programming, LGBTQ+-affirming best practices, and working with adolescent cisgender boys.  She has provided consultation to and direct education and training for schools, parent groups and youth-serving organizations in countries around the world for over 25 years.  Most recently, Dr. Schroeder was the lead author on Rights, Respect, Responsibility, the first-ever K-12 sexuality education curriculum that is completely mapped to the National Sexuality Education Standards, for which she also served as a co-author. 

  

Dr. Schroeder is the former executive director of Answer, a national sexuality education organization dedicated to providing and promoting comprehensive sexuality education to young people and the adults who teach them.  She has also served as the associate vice president of education and training at Planned Parenthood of New York City, and, before that, manager of education and special projects at Planned Parenthood Federation of America. 

  

Dr. Schroeder was a co-founding editor of the American Journal of Sexuality Education, and has authored or edited numerous publications, including Sexuality Education: Theory and Practice with Dr. Clint Bruess and the four-part book series, Sexuality Education: Past, Present and Future with Dr. Judy Kuriansky.  She is a frequently sought-out spokesperson in the news media on issues relating to sexual health education and youth development, having appeared on BBC’s “The Why Factor,” several NPR affiliates, and in The New York Times, CNN Online, The Huffington Post, among others. Dr. Schroeder speaks at conferences around the world on sexuality and adolescent development. 

  

She holds a Doctorate of Education in Human Sexuality Education from Widener University and a Master of Social Work from New York University. 

 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • What are some of the struggles with current sex education? 
  • Ways in which parents can learn more to help their children  
  • How can parents talk to their children about porn? 
  • When is the best time to speak to your children about sex? 
  • How porn can become sex education if we don’t communicate to children  
  • How can parents monitor their children access to sexually explicit content online? 
  • The importance of creating ongoing dialogue around sex education  
  • How sexuality education can help reduce the incidence of rape and sexual assault? 
  • Being upfront and honest with children about rules and paramters  

 

 

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www.drschroe.com 

 

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Mar 3, 2020

Welcome to episode 166 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Menije Boduryan-Turner to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Menije speaks with me about sexual orientation OCD, distinguishing between anxiety and sexual arousal and looking at what treatment entails.  

 

Dr. Menije of Embracing You Therapy is a leading expert on OCD who is passionate about helping you be in charge of your life, not OCD. In therapy, her goal is to break the cycle and help her clients regain their power and strength. Dr. Menije works collaboratively with her clients to tolerate the comfort, the unknown, and the uncertainty. Dr. Menije knows that her clients are completely capable of busting out of their comfort zone, taking ownership of their dreams, and creating a new sense of self. 

  

Dr. Menije is a licensed psychologist in private practice in Los Angeles, CA. She has been treating OCD and OCD Spectrum Disorders since 2012. She completed the Behavioral Training offered by the International OCD Foundation’s Training Institute. She utilizes Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), which are both evidence-based treatment for anxiety disorders.    

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • What is sexual orientation OCD? 
  • How many times this issue can go undiagnosed  
  • Why sexual arousal to the opposite of your orientation doesn’t automatically make you gay /straight /bi  
  • How does one distinguish between sexual orientation OCD versus being gay and in denial? 
  • Looking at the issue of denial  
  • How our sexualities are fluid and not set in stone  
  • How can one distinguish between anxiety and sexual arousal? 
  • What are some of the common misconceptions about sexual orientation OCD? 
  • The role anxiety plays around this issue  
  • What does the treatment entail? 
  • Making sure your therapist is a specialist in OCD  

 

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Feb 25, 2020

Welcome to episode 165 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we have a solo episode where we hear from listeners about their experiences of sexual fantasies, erectile dysfunction and coming out later in life. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • Learning to not add unnecessary pressure to yourself  
  • Looking at achievements we to aim for in relationships  
  • Understanding and talking about the monogamous agreement  
  • Making long distance relationships successful  
  • Understanding your sexual fantasies  
  • Ways you can play out your fantasies  
  • Approaching your partner with your fantasies 
  • Looking at erectile dysfunction and what can be done  
  • The importance of seeing a sex therapist to overcome sexual issues  
  • Exploring mutual masturbation  
  • Looking at premature ejaculation and it’s causes 
  • How you can improve upon premature ejaculation 
  • How longer intercourse doesn’t always mean better sex  
  • Coming out later in life  
  • Recognizing signs that you might be gay and how you can come out earlier in life 
 

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Feb 18, 2020

Welcome to episode 164 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD to the show. In this episode Dr. Jen speaks with me about reconnecting with your sexual self, why people feel discomfort around sex and looking at the main motivators for sex.  

 

Sociologist and intimacy coach, Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, is the author of the new book, From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women. Dr. Jenn is a national speaker on sexual consent, couples intimacy, women’s empowerment, gender communication, erotic play, and mindful sex.  

 

She has presented two TEDx Talks, is the co-host of the podcast Sex Talk with Clint & the Doc, and has over 1.6 million hits on her In the Den with Dr. Jenn YouTube video series. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • Why sex matters? 
  • What are some of the messages that contribute to people feeling discomfort with sexuality? 
  • The importance of critical thinking  
  • How can we expand our comfort zone around sex? 
  • Ways in which we can honor own bodies through sex 
  • What are some of the main reasons that motivate people to have sex and which ones are often more present in a long-term relationship? 
  • Looking at sexual archetypes and how one can discover their sexual archetype
 

 

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https://www.drjennsden.com  

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Feb 11, 2020

Welcome to episode 163 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Molly Winterrowd to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Winterrowd speaks with me about how attitudes and beliefs impact the quality of our sex lives, creating more space in your life for sex and how to know if we need a sexual attitude adjustment.

 

Dr. Molly Winterrowd is an advocate in providing affirmative care, is dedicated to creating a safe space where individuals and partners experiencing challenges with their sexuality or gender are able to explore these aspects openly and honestly with care and compassion. Dr. Winterrowd believes that individuals are courageously vulnerable in therapy, and it is a privilege to be trusted to explore others’ deepest needs. In our work together, she helps to navigate how to fulfill these needs most functionally within clients’ lives. Dr. Winterrowd strives to create a safe space where open communication and honesty are welcomed and embraces a holistic approach that combines various therapies to help individuals and couples achieve greater levels of satisfaction in their relationships as well as lives. 

  

Currently, Dr. Winterrowd is a Postdoctoral Fellow in Human Sexuality at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health and is devoted to helping clients to overcome sexual and relationship challenges by improving the connection with partners, enhancing relational intimacy by focusing on desires, and identifying new ways in which to bond that fulfill each person’s needs. Dr. Winterrowd helps individuals navigate the physical and emotional process encountered by sexual pain challenges, erectile dysfunction, or struggling with out of control sexual behaviors that are causing emotional pain and difficulties in their relationships. Dr. Winterrowd received her Bachelors of Arts Degree in Psychology and Comparative Sociology from University of Puget Sound, her Master of Arts Degree in Clinical Psychology from George Fox University, and Doctoral Degree in Clinical Psychology from George Fox University. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How does one’s attitudes and beliefs impact the quality of her/his sex life? 
  • What are some of the limiting beliefs that you have come across in your clients who are struggling with sexual dysfunction? 
  • How creating more space for sex can lead to better sexual experiences  
  • How does our language impact our sexual attitudes? 
  • The correlation between the way we consume food and sex  
  • How does one assess if her/his attitudes are getting in the way of a fulfilling sex life? 
  • Looking at the benefits of sexual examination and exploration 
  • How do we know if we need a sexual attitude adjustment? 
 

 

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Feb 4, 2020

Welcome to episode 162 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir speaks with me about Sexsomnia, the behavioral patterns around this issue and what treatment can look like.  

 

Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”.  

 

Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. In 2020, he will join a panel consisting of sleep medicine experts at the SLEEP 2020 conference hosted by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine and the Sleep Research Society in Philadelphia, PA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine.    

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • What is Sexsomnia?  
  • Looking at the behaviors people are showing and engaging in  
  • Sexual acts people can perform in their sleep  
  • Looking at this through a psychiatric lens 
  • What treatment for Sexsomnia looks like  
  • The relationship between this condition and criminal law  
  • How this issue stretches back hundreds of years  
  • Why lawyers are very skeptical of Sexsomnia  
  • Evaluations that can be made around Sexsomnia  
  • Taking a look at ictal orgasms  

 

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Jan 28, 2020

Welcome to episode 161 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Carol Queen, PhD to the podcast. In this episode Carol speaks with me about overcoming sexual shyness, things we can do to expand our horizons and tools we can add to our sexual toolbox.  

 

Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture. She has written a sex tutorial, Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot, as well as erotica, such as the novel The Leather Daddy and the Femme.  

 

Queen has produced adult movies, events, workshops and lectures. Queen was featured as an instructor and star in both instalments of the Bend Over Boyfriend series about female-to-male anal sex, or pegging. She has also served as editor for compilations and anthologies.  

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • The ways in which people experience sexual pleasure 
  • How people integrate their sexuality into relationships 
  • Looking at various we can give and receive pleasure 
  • How we can more tools to our sexual toolbox 
  • Building good compatibility with good communication  
  • Where does our sexual shyness come from? 
  • Getting over our sexual shyness 
  • How erotic audiobooks can expand our sexual horizons  
  • Looking at our fantasies and how they play out 
  • Why going too far outside your comfort zone isn’t always the best thing 

 

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Jan 21, 2020

Welcome to episode 160 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Ela Darling to the podcast. In this episode Ela speaks with me about how she became involved in virtual reality porn, it’s social implications and how she sees it expanding in the future.  

 

Ela Darling is a former librarian who has since become the leading voice in the intersection of Virtual Reality and the Adult Industry. As the world's first VR camgirl, Darling is a pioneer in the field of Virtual Reality pornography, having worked with a variety of elite adult companies, on both sides of the camera.  

 

After a decade as an adult film performer, she is now the Director of Marketing for ViRo Club, a private, inclusive, judgement-free adult VR play space.   

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How Ela went from being a librarian to working in the adult movie industry  
  • What is Virtual Reality porn? 
  • How did Ela transition to webcamming?  
  • The impact bringing the camera into the experience has for VR porn  
  • Taking a look at Telidildonics 
  • Who are the people watching VR porn? 
  • Looking at the content of VR porn  
  • The importance of the plot within porn  
  • How Ela see’s this technology expanding in the future 
  • The social implications of VR 
  • Looking at the pros and cons of VR as it grows  
 
 

 

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Jan 14, 2020

Welcome to episode 159 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Barbara Carrellas to the podcast. In this episode Barbara speaks to me about Tantra, how you can enjoy it with a partner and we also take a look at Energygasms and Sex Magic.  

 

Barbara is the founder of Urban Tantra®, a hot and healing approach to sexuality that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century—now in its second edition, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving.  

 

She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine for her Urban Tantra workshops, and received a Lifetime Achievement Award at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. She is a proud graduate of the Coney Island Sideshow School with a double major in fire eating and snake handling. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • What is Tantra? 
  • Ways you can approach Tantra? 
  • How can one enjoy tantric sex with a partner? What are some of the rituals involved? 
  • Learning how to slow our minds and bodies down 
  • Looking at breathing exercises  
  • Are men able to maintain erections with Tantra? 
  • Why erections alone are not the focus point 
  • What is an Energygasm? How can one achieve it? 
  • The relationship between energy and thought 
  • What is sex magic and how can that be a form of relaxation? 
 

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Jan 7, 2020

Welcome to episode 158 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special anniversary episode celebrating three years of Sexology Podcast. In this episode we hear from Dr. Cat Meyer, Tara Galeano, Jessica Graham, Dr. Ari Tuckman, Wendy Maltz LCSW, Rachel Grant and Jonathan Miller on their best sex tips.

Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist #88224, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She hosts an online women's sexuality + embodiment program called LOVE.body 

 Tara Galeano helps women reimagine their bodies after cancer and rekindle their sexuality. She is a certified sex therapist and teaches the class, Rediscovering My Body after Cancer, to amazing, courageous women who have had cancer. 

Jessica Graham is a meditation teacher, sex, relationship, and spiritual guide for couples and individuals, speaker, and author of Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out. 

Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, was just published and is the first to examine how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both. 

Wendy Maltz LCSW, DST, is an internationally recognized sex therapist, author, and speaker, with more than thirty-five years of experience treating sex and intimacy concerns.  

Rachel Grant is the owner and founder of Rachel Grant Coaching and is a Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach. She is also the author of Beyond Surviving: The Final Stage in Recovery from Sexual Abuse. 

Jonathan Miller helps high-performing couples upgrade their communication skills to have fight-free relationships. As a speaker, coach and trainer, Jonathan is dedicated to empowering others to communicate mindfully. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

  • Learning about mirror work 
  • Embracing new things in your life 
  • Looking at self-love 
  • The importance getting more sleep can have on your sex life 
  • Understanding the need for more intimacy  
  • Looking at trust and surrendering  
  • Paying attention to external factors that can affect our sex life 
 

 

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Dec 31, 2019
 

Welcome to episode 157 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Xanet Pailet to the podcast. In this episode Xanet speaks to me about she overcame a sexless marriage, looking at the barriers of sexual shame and taking the power back over arousal.  

Xanet Pailet is the best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life. Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades.  After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach.   

  

Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure.  Xanet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their sexuality.  

  

Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatic Experiencing Trauma practitioner. She is on the faculty of 1440 Multiversity, Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • How Xanet pursued overcame a sexless marriage  
  • The tremendous amount of shame that surrounds sex 
  • The way in which couples lose intimacy when they stop having sex  
  • How many people don’t see themselves as sexual beings  
  • The negative messages women receive throughout life about sex  
  • Overcoming the barriers of sexual shame  
  • How women are programmed to say no to sex  
  • Taking a look at the Madonna–whore dilemma  
  • How women get sexualised in a negative way  
  • Looking at the issue of verbal harassment  
  • Dealing with the issue of slut shaming  
  • Learning to take the power back over your own arousal  
 
 

 

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Dec 24, 2019
 

Welcome to episode 156 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. JoAnna Nguyen to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Nguyen speaks to me about labia surgery, why people have the surgery, how common it is and looking at the process of the surgery.  

 

Dr. JoAnna Nguyen is a board-certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon in Los Angeles, California, with expertise in all fields of plastic surgery, including aesthetic, reconstructive, pediatric, hand, and burn surgery.  She has a particular interest in aesthetic surgery of the eyes and face, breast surgery and labiaplasty. Dr. Nguyen is also passionate about skincare and has extensive experience with non-surgical treatments such as lasers, peels, and topical treatments.  

  

Dr. Nguyen was born and raised in beautiful Southern California. Spoiled by the perennial sunny weather in Huntington Beach, her curiosity for the seasons led her to the the East Coast, where she attended Boston University. There she graduated Summa Cum Laude with dual degrees in Psychology and Biology with a Specialization in Neuroscience. After volunteering with a non-profit organization that provides plastic surgery to children in need, Dr. Nguyen’s interest in plastic surgery was ignited.  

  

Having experienced her fair share of Boston weather, Dr. Nguyen was drawn to the sunshine of Miami where she received her Doctorate in Medicine (M.D) from the Univeristy of Miami Miller School of Medicine. She returned home to Southern California to complete a one year clinical research fellowship in reconstructive plastic surgery at the University of Southern California. During that year, she was the driving force behind 23 research projects, presented at numerous national meetings, and published over 11 manuscripts.  

  

She then went on to complete six years of formal plastic and reconstructive surgical training at the prestigious plastic and reconstructive surgery program at USC. During her training, Dr. Nguyen operated at premier hospitals on the west coast, including Cedars-Sinai Medical Center and USC Keck Medical Center. Dr. Nguyen lives with her husband and daughter in Los Angeles and in her free time, she enjoys exercising, cooking, listening to music, and traveling. 

 

In This Episode You Will Hear:  

 

  • Is there a medical guideline to how labia should look? 
  • How labia surgery is much more common now than in the past  
  • How can women realize the difference between a medical and aesthetic issue?  
  • Is this a common surgery in Los Angeles? 
  • Looking at the process of the surgery  
  • The risk involved with the surgery  
  • Looking at sexual health issues, are there side effects? 
  • The age range of people participating in this surgery  
  • Can you have this surgery after having a child?  
 
 

 

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Find Dr. Nguyen here 

https://www.joannanguyenmd.com/ 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

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